Ischubbyguy:
Zines. In the early 90's people would put out little self published zines. A good number of them were about kinks and fetishes. That was how I figured out that i wasn't alone with having different sexul fantasies. There were others out there that had them too.
I met my first feedee through a indie paper. She had put an add in the "kink" section and i answered.
Anyway that's how got met others.
This and VHS tapes. Early on the VHS tapes were mostly vanilla sex but as t ime went on more kinky stuff started popping up. I don't remember any feeder/feedee stuff but I do recall some SSBBW tapes. One had SSBBWs with dwarves. I almost bought it just out of curiosity but was a broke college student.
TBH zines and tapes showed me I wasn't alone with my kinks (non feeder/feedee since my introduction to the FA community was recent).
