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I don't know if it's me, or maybe I'm even wrong. But I feel like there are a lot of gay men among the gainers, feedees, feeders, and even chubby chasers in general. Is this really a fact? , And if so, why. Because I really have that impression.
Can you explain why ?

I mean, the gainer community was originally just for gay people. It just expanded to include everyone.

Ha ok.

Being bisexual and not strictly gay myself, I get disappointed when I see a pic of a hot fat guy with a big belly and see on his profile that he’s not at least bisexual himself, I know it’s wrong to think like that, everyone has the right to be here or I suppose I wouldn’t be here either

I see.

I don’t know if all fat gay men deliberately gain but at least on Grommr there are 10s of 1000s of gay men who are gainers, maintainers, encouragers, admirers, feeders, feedees and every permutation there of. I don’t know what explains this phenomenon but I’m a fat gay guy and love other fat guys. In fact, I’m finding myself upping my fat game, that is, I’m being drawn more and more to wanting to be fatter than I initially aimed for, and finding super chub guys very much more of a turn on than I used to.

Effectively.

I understand because I'am on grommr too. And I managed to find some big men to feed and rub.

It might be that some men has a bi tendency but have been strait most of their lives then finding this site is such a turn on to find like minded men to encourage them to grow bigger

It is surprising that they were initially reserved for gay men, when anyone, regardless of their sex or sexual orientation, can be attracted to being overweight

I feel like there's a number of reasons why the feedee/feeder/fa/gainer/etc community "appears" to be larger in the gay world compared to the straight (men) world, such as:

- Getting fatter will generally give you a plumpier chest, and will add some fat around your "knob" (often making it appear shorter than it is), which are considered by the "mainstream masculine" circles to be feminine traits and hence a sort-of taboo for straight guys.

- The gay community is generally more "open" to... "Unorthodox things", which includes this portfolio of kinks. This makes it easier for them (us) to create communities around it with a bit less shame, and (to an extent) to "normalise" it a bit more easily.

That said, the community is growing exponentially also for straight men, I see maaany more straight guys then I did 15-20 years ago.