Submission and domination

Your advice for being a dominant feeder

FoodIsTheKeyToTheHeart:
Has anyone had any experience with being one? What is your advice?

Look, I'm going to speak from my point of view as a feedee, and I would like someone who has initiative. In other words, that he sets the pace, that he tells you when you're going to eat and when you're not, that (within agreed-upon limits) he makes you feel inferior and controls you while he feeds as he pleases.
2 weeks

Your advice for being a dominant feeder

FoodIsTheKeyToTheHeart:
Could you elaborate on that? Would you want your feeder to send you good challenges, like ’eat this and send proof or else… ’
To be more specific, I'd like you to ask me exactly what you want to know. But challenges are fine, although sometimes more than a challenge I prefer that my feeder "forces" me or demands that I do something, as if there were no other option. Although I must say that I'm quite radical when it comes to dominance.
2 weeks

Your advice for being a dominant feeder

I think there’s such nuance in dom/sub dynamics it would depend on what that looks like to you and your sub. Communication is key.

Like personally, most of the time I like a soft dom who is going to encourage and “hint” at punishment should I not obey or become a little “bratty”. I am also into a little forcefulness sometimes and humiliation, but in those cases aftercare is important (online aswell as irl) where there is a connection to avoid feeling used or experiencing “sub drop”

So best advice, discuss boundaries and turn ons/offs/safe words before you engage and it can be the safest and most fun place to be 😉
4 days