IAmNotACat:
I'm asexual myself, and I've always wondered how many other people in this scene fall under that umbrella.
I've heard a lot of people on here talking about how only bellies or the idea of getting fatter gets them off, or that they prefer masturbating to having sex, or that sex isn't on their radar compared with things like feeding and indulgence.
For some people the idea of their partner being so big they become 'inaccessible' is really appealing, and I've met people who didn't care if sex was involved or not so long as they were fattening up.
For all that, I don't find a lot of people identifying themselves as asexual (in part the site doesn't make it easy since there's unfortunately no way to signal that you're straight, bi, gay or lesbian AND asexual).
So how important are penetrative or other conventional sex acts to you?
Well, so, i have a complicated background. I'm a grey-ace Christian. I want sex sometimes, but rarely, and find genitals disgusting - but this umbrella of kinks has always been my thing. I figured it out at like 5. Feedism and hefty men have been my sole form of comfort for many, many years.
I could live for months, maybe years without sex. Every now and then i ovulate and want some lol 😠but other than that, i find life less stressful when i dont have to think about a sex life. I am married, and it's been hard, but i'm trying to figure it out.
To answer any gawking questions - yes, I am Christian. Devout. Jesus freak. Whatever lol. I've always "struggled" with this kink and decided i can't help my desires so I shouldn't shame myself for them. I can't help it. God doesn't get mad at us for things we didn't choose.
