General

PinkFox:
I think I misunderstood OP's post earlier. But anyhow I myself am a BBW who have previously dated bigger guys.

I will say I have bad experiences with talking to guys on here on my old account. They often come off as desperate and are suddenly in love with you. Expecting you to date them all because they have a body type you like.

I have seen a good chunk of misogyny on here. Even I have once been called "bitchy" years ago from some dude in the chatroom. I don't blame women for wanting to stay private because of that. In matter of fact I set my gender to "other" to avoid unsolicited DM's.

I Am Uo:
Ignore him he's a troll, go look at all his bizarre posts

Edddde:
Troll?????

I Am Uo:
Well I sure hope you are trolling with some of these posts.... Otherwise yikes 😬😬😬

[Fat Little Hog:
I think unfortunately a lot of people get on this site when they're horny, message as many people as they can. Then when someone responds (women or man) they turn the conversation into their fantasy slowly imposing it on the other person. Then if you decline wanting to participate they get mad because they didn't get what they want.

LilRascl:
This is exactly the reason I rage quit my account years ago. I deleted what had been a rather impressive documentation of my early gains because I was so turned off by messages and chats from dudes who were clearly only typing with one hand (if you know what I mean) that I didn’t want to participate in our community anymore.

Nowadays I focus my participation mainly on IRL meet-ups in my area, and am in a relationship with an FA with feeder tendencies. I highly recommend this approach if other fatties by choice are meeting up where you live!