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My bf and I have been dating for over 7 yrs now, he’s tall (6’3) and handsome, when we first started dating he was pretty skinny! We started dating right after high school for reference.

Over the years I’ve introduced him to my fetish, which he accepted but at first wasn’t super into. Honestly, I mainly am interested in the fantasy of me gaining weight but I love to see others indulge as well.

I’ve fed him a ton of hearty home cooked southern meals. He always bragged about how good my cooking was, and how good his metabolism was. He loves junk food, his favorite meal is pizza or anything fried and he’s obsessed with soda. I knew his slim waistline couldn’t last long once he started drinking beers pretty consistently a couple years ago.

He’s about to turn 26 and I’ve managed to help give him a pre-dad bod. It’s soo hot to me and he likes to tease me about it!!! He joked that I just want him bigger and that he eats more for me.

I love his soft chest and how he almost has moobs. He has a pretty soft ass too lol. I’m bisexual so he jokes to me about how his ass is fat like a girls, and it turns me on.. He has a permanent muffin top in all his clothes, he wears XL shirts but we both notice how the swell of his belly pokes out in all his clothes now.

I’m seriously not writing fiction! I’m just aroused and feeling grateful for my boyfriend and wanted to give anyone hope in a relationship that wants to practice their fetish- I was terrified to share my fetish with my boyfriend at first. He slowly accepted the notions of it and we had some awkward sex sessions messing around with it but now it’s awesome.

We still divulge in my own fantasies of gaining weight some times but the spotlight is definitely on him right now. I always thought feeder turned feedee stories are hot and it happened to him and I might let go one day with him and get fat.

For right now though, I like the difference between our bodies. I’ve always been the one in the relationship that actually likes working out (he dislikes doing so, at a point he was only working out his arms but never his abs so he could ‘keep the belly’). I swear he’s such a fatty, if it wasn’t for his metabolism that is slowly eroding with age he’d be huge right now.

It honestly sounds like you two found something really special, and I think that's the most important part. My favorite part was reading how he went from being hesitant about your fetish to actually joking with you about it. sounds like a success story.

I honestly wish I could let go like that too. I've been on a few dates with women who were into fattening men, but for them it was mostly just a sexual fetish, and we didn't really have much in common outside of that. Now I'm dating a chubby woman who I'd actually love to end up being fatter than her. She's a great cook and genuinely enjoys seeing me eat, but she isn't part of the feederism world at all. She just loves food. I've started opening up a little by telling her how much I enjoy eating, and I've casually made a few comments about gaining weight. It doesn't really seem to bother her, although she did seem a bit uncomfortable with talking too much about body size. So for now I'm just enjoying being with her and not diving too deeply into the fetish side of things. Maybe one day it'll naturally happen the way it did for your boyfriend. I can only hope!

Congrats to you both!

thanks for sharing this, it's wonderful to hear about experiences like this.

too much of the time people dating in this community seem to focus on "i need to find a feeder," rather than finding someone they just genuinely really like! if you can find someone that you are compatible with, that you can trust and can fall in love with, that is soooo much more important than anything else.

similar to your experience, my partner was not aware of this feedist world at all, she just liked fat guys. and i think once you can get to trust someone, and they're not pushing their fetish on you, but just giving you a window into it, it allows a person to see it through the other's eyes, in a way.

wishing you two all the best, and many more pounds in the future!