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Fat as a comfort

Lately I've been super stressed out, and when that happens, I tend to find myself playing with my fat more often, squeezing and massaging and jiggling my belly, grabbing and squishing my inner thighs, kneading my love handles, etc.

Similarly, I've noticed that when my partner/friends/family are distressed, my instinct usually is to hug them and squish as much of my fat onto them as possible...

I don't think this is super uncommon, but would love to hear others experiences with using fat as a comfort, whether its your body/fat or someone else's fat providing the comfort!
2 days

Fat as a comfort

Absolutely. Now that I've gained enough to actually have proper fat to hold on to, I find myself squeezing and massaging my fat throughout the day. It's comforting and self-assuring. For me, it's mini-celebration after mini-celebration that I've done and am doing this to myself.
2 days

Fat as a comfort

Yes, when I'm stressed, I sometimes imagine a big, burly man holding me nice and warm against his big soft belly in a tight hug🐻. Big bellies can make perfect stress balls.
2 days

Fat as a comfort

Stockylove:
Yes, when I'm stressed, I sometimes imagine a big, burly man holding me nice and warm against his big soft belly in a tight hug🐻. Big bellies can make perfect stress balls.
Ahhh thats actually pretty affirming hearing that non-fat folks find being pressed against fat comforting, tbh that was the part I was more unsure of haha
2 days

Fat as a comfort

Stockylove:
Yes, when I'm stressed, I sometimes imagine a big, burly man holding me nice and warm against his big soft belly in a tight hug🐻. Big bellies can make perfect stress balls.

XFat:
Ahhh thats actually pretty affirming hearing that non-fat folks find being pressed against fat comforting, tbh that was the part I was more unsure of haha


Yes of course, it's awesome.

I think there are far more people than you'd think who like big bellies🧸

big bellies🐻 are life 🥴
1 day

Fat as a comfort

Stockylove:
Yes, when I'm stressed, I sometimes imagine a big, burly man holding me nice and warm against his big soft belly in a tight hug🐻. Big bellies can make perfect stress balls.

XFat:
Ahhh thats actually pretty affirming hearing that non-fat folks find being pressed against fat comforting, tbh that was the part I was more unsure of haha


I thought that I would echo on this because even though I am far from being plus sized, I do find that the intimate company either from snuggling or if a (romantic) partner of mine allows me to have a good session to play with their belly… I actually feel a bit more better and “lighter” in a way. It’s like my stress and anxieties have completely left the room for the day.

If I’m not mistaken, I have heard that there were studies that people who go through a lot of stress tend to prefer more heavier partners. I could be mistaken for that being true, but I do kinda lowkey relate to it. 😅
18 hours

Fat as a comfort

Cuddle time is indeed so much more comforting and reassuring with a soft, fat partner 👍❤️
15 hours

Fat as a comfort

Stockylove:
Yes, when I'm stressed, I sometimes imagine a big, burly man holding me nice and warm against his big soft belly in a tight hug🐻. Big bellies can make perfect stress balls.

XFat:
Ahhh thats actually pretty affirming hearing that non-fat folks find being pressed against fat comforting, tbh that was the part I was more unsure of haha

JN_TumLover56:
I thought that I would echo on this because even though I am far from being plus sized, I do find that the intimate company either from snuggling or if a (romantic) partner of mine allows me to have a good session to play with their belly… I actually feel a bit more better and “lighter” in a way. It’s like my stress and anxieties have completely left the room for the day.

If I’m not mistaken, I have heard that there were studies that people who go through a lot of stress tend to prefer more heavier partners. I could be mistaken for that being true, but I do kinda lowkey relate to it. 😅


I can relate to that too, being a skinny, stressed guy myself. It’s not surprising; people with a largeur, and chunky build🐻🧸 are reassuring and make you feel secure.

Besides, ending up crushed under a big belly is actually quite pleasant, too: you feel flattened yet relaxed it’s like a good massage.
11 hours