General

I am asexual and aromantic and ironically even on the repulsed spectrum, meaning even the idea of anything sexual or romantic is not something I'm into. Even stranger is that while I like food, I don't love eating until I'm super full, and YET-- yet I still want to gain weight and become fat. Not because of any sexual reasons, nor because I just love food and don't care. I actively want to be fat just for me, myself and I because I feel more comfortable in my own skin when I'm fat.

Assuming that the state of being asexual is a spectrum (and I've seen significant debate on the topic of whether it is), I'm likely somewhere on there. My passion for traditional intercourse has been staggeringly low across my lifetime, despite my sincere efforts to rewire myself. I'm into women, and I like to get off, but that way just isn't it. However, fat and feedism are hugely effective libido drivers. They are at the center of my sexuality. God knows why, but they are.

+1 that if FF offered a multi-select for this area of the profile, I would choose "asexual" as a second label.

I identity myself as on aromantic and asexual spectrum for years. I'm gay as well, I have a husband, but sex and romance aren't that important to me and for me to get really invested and attracted to someone I need years of emotional connection.

But... Since coming out from feedism closet, this part of identity is up to debate for me, again. I noticed that it's harder for me to get off if it doesn't involve feeding at least to some extent. I'm speculating if that's what having fetish actually is (what differs fetish from kink is that fetish is necessary in most of the sexual interactions iirc) and maybe I'm not asexual but just have a very specific preference for fat men, LOL. So that's kind of a complicated thing to me