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Everyone has a different story. What first got you interested in this community?

I’ve always loved men with big bellies; the sight of a man with a full, distended belly simply turns me on. I also love burps and stomach gurgling sounds (and I have plenty of other kinks and fetishes, too). Seeing them looking stuffed, sighing with satisfaction, and rubbing their big bellies is incredibly hot.

I love feederism too, because I think I enjoy taking care of a big guy like a big baby; I can rub their big bellies and give them big hugs🐻, and they’re happy and at ease. I can also ask them to crush me under their big bellies or burp in my face.

However, I’m not into extreme feederism where someone gains so much weight that they become disabled due to morbid obesity; that doesn't appeal to me at all. I enjoy feederism only when it’s occasional and doesn't ruin the feedee's health. Plus, even though I like heavier men, I don't like it when they get "too" big; to me, that isn't attractive.

What got me into it was all the way back as early as I can remember I lived with my grandpa grandma and mom. My grandpa was 800 lbs, my mom was 600 lbs, and my grandma was 400 lbs. I didn't know any better so I thought it was cool to be fat so I would stuff pillows and stuff into my clothes just pretending to be fat. One day I stuffed my pants insanely tight and I started to get hard but my pants were stuffed so tight that it hurt so I kept moving my pens around to a more comfortable spot until I came for the first time ever. Ever since then I've wanted to be even fatter than my grandpa ever was more than anything in the world. After that I stole a pair of his underwear, a pair of his pants, and the biggest shirt I could find and started pretending to be as fat as he was almost every other day since then. He died back in 2018 and I still have his clothes using them to pad all the time

One of my exes actually got me into this. We always enjoyed going out to eat and one time we went to a Chinese buffet. We purposely stuffed ourselves silly and when we started getting handsy at home, it was evident that we were too stuffed to do anything beyond cuddle. I've been chasing that high ever since lol. Sadly didn't work out but that's okay. I'm pretty happy doing this on my own and with occasional people encouraging me.

Feedism has always been a core part of my programming.

Something similar happened with me... I would pad in my bed at night and one night that got me off.... So I kept doing what felt good! But what inspired me to pad in the first place?? 🤔

I've wondered about this a lot myself and despite considerable reflection, I've never been able to narrow down to one particular defining moment or origin story.

But, I couldn't help but notice certain things. It seemed like most the adults in positions of authority who were pleasant and fun, tended to be fat. But then I remember a nasty kindergarten teacher that I would characterize as the "Wicked Witch of the West" was skinny. But most of the nice teachers? Fat. The bus driver that took everyone out for ice cream? Fat. When I had trouble in elementary school the principal, he was nice.. and he was fat.

Despite all the rhetoric, the media at the time, etc. it really did seem fat people really were happier, more pleasant, and jolly. Who wouldn't want that?

Meanwhile you have those who ate food they hated or would punish themselves at the gym, and for what? To be skinny and cranky? Didn't even think it looked better either.

I also remember seeing all the various weight loss ads out there - they told a story that didn't seem to align with my observations. That the subjects were so much happier and looked so much better after losing. And the after picture almost never looked better than the before.

When that time in my life came where I started to see women in a "new" way, I gravitated towards larger women. Why wouldn't I want that?

This was also the time when the World Wide Web was spreading and becoming mainstream. On Excite! or perhaps Yahoo (one of those search engines before Google and Bing), I searched for something like - "weight gain" "before and after" at which point, I discovered Dimensions Magazine, some of the originals like Kelligrrl, Brooke, SexyMic, and CurvyDreamer, and so on.

It was as if the gates of St. Peter opened up in the sky and angels were singing Hallelujah! I wasn't crazy, I wasn't alone, I wasn't the only one who thought this way! Like a whole new world opened up for me.

A few years later I would discover FF which I would continue to regularly visit to this day.

I feel the same, I don't remember a time when this wasn't a fundamental part of me.

It was kink I developed over time in my formative years as an offshoot of the body inflation fetish. Just made sense as I liked bellies getting bigger.