Fat experiences

I've been a lifelong feeder/fa, so naturally I love bigger, growing bodies, but I never considered what it would be like to see it actually happen to me.

Lately, I've been much more sedentary, getting takeout smidge too often, having slightly larger portions, and it seems all that has finally started to pay off. I've always had a chubby, jiggly belly (I'm around 160lbs), but now when I see myself in the mirror, I can't help but think... was my belly always this big?

I've been feeling pretty conflicted about this. On one hand, I love bellies on principle, so a slightly bigger belly of mine to play with sounds good on paper, but there's also a part of me that figured my body would always stay the same. I've always fantasized about having an overindulgent feedee and relishing in the slow, but sure expansion of her waistline too, and that very same fantasy has happened to me! (at least to some extent).

I'll probably try to reverse this slow climb of mine or at least maintain it, but it's still been a very interesting experience for me. I've definitely been more handsy with my belly which has been pretty fun if nothing else lol. I don't think I've quite hit the feeder to feedee pipeline, but if I had a partner praising or teasing me about it then I might have lmao.

I had a pretty similar experience, gaining a good deal while I didn’t have a feedee, and decided to embrace it now that I’m seeing someone. I have to say, I think you’re spot on- for me, it’s nearly the same joy I got from other peoples’ softness, just on me, and available 24/7. The feeder/feedee pipeline won’t fully claim me, but living indulgently and enjoying myself really opened my eyes up to where I’m glad I let it happen.

I originally envisioned myself as a (more dominant, aggressive) feeder — that sort of role. As time went on and I discovered the joys of autoeroticism and self-inflicted weight gain, I changed into a (submissive) feedee/gainer. I never completely lost that original drive to fatten a partner, but it feels almost gone… buried somewhere beneath the weight I’ve put on.

I say this to remind you that your experience is not uncommon. The whole feeder/feedee thing is a spectrum, and it sounds like you’re still figuring out where you fit.
But it is true: once you get fat, it’s hard not to play with it! Just be cautious—weight gain, while awesome, is something you have to be committed to. I know you haven’t hit the pipeline yet, but ime there are some times when it’s inconvenient to be fat (like when you have to run, jump, climb, squeeze into tight spaces, etc). I personally have some minor regrets about gaining, but that’s usually nothing more cheesecake won’t fix.

Best of luck, truly.

I believe this happens to many FA’s, feeders, encouragers etc. in time. Be it the lack of weight gain in their relationship on their significant other or lack being in a relationship and it manifests on oneself.

Raises his hand, happened to me, ended up loving it and decided to intentionally gain a lot mostly to try and get my wife to tease, reprimand or scold me for packing on such a huge gut or maybe just to see what others thought of my huge change.

Like Fatterforever said - it’s like being a feeder but the weight is with you 24/7, not to mention it makes you aroused eating so much and then makes you horny for how much you ate and how bloated you get. it is a vicious cycle of eating, becoming horny eating more and always growing.

Nice hearing other perspectives. I don't keep a scale around but it wasn't a drastic gain, probably around +10lbs at most. It's more so something I started to feel.

I never considered feedism roles as a spectrum, so maybe there is more about me I've yet to discover. I do really love my chubby belly. Big enough to be fun to play with, small enough that I can hide it and pass as an averagely built guy. Sometimes I enjoy feeling full and bloated after a big meal too, but the idea of completely changing my body makes me uneasy, so I'll be steering clear of the deep end... at least for now lol.

Ah, I know the feeling well. I’m up to 225 myself while my wife, who’s been north of 300 for years now, continues to gain beautifully.

Instead of retyping all this, I’ll link back to our gaining story — enjoy!

fantasyfeeder.com/forum/posts