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I am just wondering how much feeders typically want their feedees to weigh? I have been afraid to explore my fetish partly because I have heard that a lot of feeders are very aggressive and demanding and want to fatten their feedees up to 300 pounds, sometimes even up to 500 or 600 pounds.

However much they want to weigh. Your partner's comfort and agency is always top priority.

There are feeders who are not like this but I do understand this worry.

Remember, it's your body and you're the only one who gets to decide how much you gain and what your limits are.

There will be those out there who won't push you to go further, and if someone does try to do this, you don't have to stay. ❤️

There is a risk that with gaining fetishes there is in theory never an end.

However the progress kink doesn’t always have to be active gaining. It can come from looking at before and after pics or comparing the feeder to how much smaller they were with clothes etc.

Couples should have a conversation and look at similar body shape feedees who have gained. Establish a limit before getting in too deep x