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That is very true. In this life, you have to help yourself. No one can do it all for you.

[quote]PlumpChick:
@AskDrFeeder No one should eat until they are too obese to walk around, use the bathroom by themselves and clean themselves. Feederism is cool but only to a limited extent. You should discourage the feedee if it is reaching the point of being crippling.

AskDrFeeder:
I agree, but that's not what I'm talking about. What if she won't be discouraged? What is her feeder supposed to do? Constantly nag her about her weight and eating habits?

Xx Lillith Xx:
I agree. I've been in that situation with a long term (now ex) partner. It wasn't a feedist relationship but he had terrible eating habits and gained so much he was over 600lbs.

It was truly awful, and as much as I tried to help him lose weight, he just continued. He got more passive agressive as time went on and became very abusive. In the end I had to leave.

There's really nothing you can do to help someone like this if they won't do it for themselves, and a relationship needs both people working together to make it work.

That is very true. In this life you must help yourself. No one can do it all for you.