Fat experiences

PlumpChick:
Don't let yourself get too obese though.

AskDrFeeder:
Good advice, but how do you do that? And how obese is "too obese"?

I don't know the answer myself, but I have noticed that a lot of people set a weight limit, reach it and feel like it's not big enough and go ahead and gain more.

PlumpChick:
If it starts to impact your health or mobility, it is too much.

Xx Lillith Xx:
Many of us enjoy that though. We are fully aware of how it affects our health and mobility, but we chose to do it anyway.

PlumpChick:
This is where I disagree with you, Lillith. There has to be a limit somewhere.

PlumpChick:
Don't let yourself get too obese though.

AskDrFeeder:
Good advice, but how do you do that? And how obese is "too obese"?

I don't know the answer myself, but I have noticed that a lot of people set a weight limit, reach it and feel like it's not big enough and go ahead and gain more.

PlumpChick:
If it starts to impact your health or mobility, it is too much.

Xx Lillith Xx:
Many of us enjoy that though. We are fully aware of how it affects our health and mobility, but we chose to do it anyway.

PlumpChick:
This is where I disagree with you, Lillith. There has to be a limit somewhere.

PlumpChick:
Don't let yourself get too obese though.

AskDrFeeder:
Good advice, but how do you do that? And how obese is "too obese"?

I don't know the answer myself, but I have noticed that a lot of people set a weight limit, reach it and feel like it's not big enough and go ahead and gain more.

PlumpChick:
If it starts to impact your health or mobility, it is too much.

Xx Lillith Xx:
Many of us enjoy that though. We are fully aware of how it affects our health and mobility, but we chose to do it anyway.

PlumpChick:
This is where I disagree with you, Lillith. There has to be a limit somewhere.

Xx Lillith Xx:
Well, my statements are objectively true, so I don't know what exactly you are disagreeing with. There are many feedists who enjoy the challenges and struggles, and obviously we are aware of them but choose to do it anyway.

Regarding limits, everyone has them and they are personal to each individual. People will also have their real life limits and their fantasy limits. This is a space where we can talk about both without judgement and being told what we should, and shouldn't, do with our own bodies.

PlumpChick:
Don't let yourself get too obese though.

AskDrFeeder:
Good advice, but how do you do that? And how obese is "too obese"?

I don't know the answer myself, but I have noticed that a lot of people set a weight limit, reach it and feel like it's not big enough and go ahead and gain more.

PlumpChick:
If it starts to impact your health or mobility, it is too much.

Xx Lillith Xx:
Many of us enjoy that though. We are fully aware of how it affects our health and mobility, but we chose to do it anyway.

PlumpChick:
This is where I disagree with you, Lillith. There has to be a limit somewhere.

AskDrFeeder:
PlumpChick: If you want a limit for yourself that's fine; I don't think anyone would object to that.

Out of curiousity, what IS your limit? How did you arrive at it?

PlumpChick:
Don't let yourself get too obese though.

AskDrFeeder:
Good advice, but how do you do that? And how obese is "too obese"?

I don't know the answer myself, but I have noticed that a lot of people set a weight limit, reach it and feel like it's not big enough and go ahead and gain more.

PlumpChick:
If it starts to impact your health or mobility, it is too much.

Xx Lillith Xx:
Many of us enjoy that though. We are fully aware of how it affects our health and mobility, but we chose to do it anyway.

PlumpChick:
This is where I disagree with you, Lillith. There has to be a limit somewhere.

AskDrFeeder:
PlumpChick: If you want a limit for yourself that's fine; I don't think anyone would object to that.

Out of curiousity, what IS your limit? How did you arrive at it?

PlumpChick:
My profile has my limit, it is 200 pounds. I was 206 at one point and it was difficult to run. Once I dropped back to 199/200, I could run again. Believe it or not, those 6 pounds were the turning point. Soft bellies and back fat are cute, don't get me wrong, but I value my mobility.

Misoosoup61:
I think some sort of absolute limit for me would be like, ~500lbs probably? i don't know, that's just how i think. coming from someone that's been dangerously thin their entire life i just think it's very exciting lol

PlumpChick:
Don't let yourself get too obese though.

AskDrFeeder:
Good advice, but how do you do that? And how obese is "too obese"?

I don't know the answer myself, but I have noticed that a lot of people set a weight limit, reach it and feel like it's not big enough and go ahead and gain more.

PlumpChick:
If it starts to impact your health or mobility, it is too much.

Xx Lillith Xx:
Many of us enjoy that though. We are fully aware of how it affects our health and mobility, but we chose to do it anyway.

PlumpChick:
This is where I disagree with you, Lillith. There has to be a limit somewhere.

AskDrFeeder:
PlumpChick: If you want a limit for yourself that's fine; I don't think anyone would object to that.

Out of curiousity, what IS your limit? How did you arrive at it?

PlumpChick:
My profile has my limit, it is 200 pounds. I was 206 at one point and it was difficult to run. Once I dropped back to 199/200, I could run again. Believe it or not, those 6 pounds were the turning point. Soft bellies and back fat are cute, don't get me wrong, but I value my mobility.

XFat:
That's wonderful for you! I'm very glad that you have found a weight that works for you and that you are able to stay at that weight.

My personal weight/mobility restrictions dont align with yours. I cant run, in cant jump, and if a building was burning and the only exit was a window, I may die due to not being able to fit through it. Personally, I want to be even bigger than I am now, which I know will come with even more compromises on my health/mobility.

That being said, I dont feel that I deserve to be judged, told that I am getting too big, or that I shouldn't be growing larger. Especially within a community that celebrates bigger bodies. Especially within a community where we support immobility, immobility fantasies, death feedists, and other extreme forms of weight gain. Don't yuck someone else's yum, we all deserve a space to be hedonistic and happy 😊