Clandestine feederism is not something I find wise in the long term, and I could imagine why the ladies would have been upset by that. At the same time in my experience some larger women are quite happy to go along with it when introduced, even enthusiastic, in which it is great for everyone.
I truly feel bad for the women who had such negative experiences. Pearadise's website from what I read does not explicitly describe Stefan as being a feeder from what I can see. At the same time, a lot of these women are very large and are looking for affirmation and a place to be welcomed.
A bit of caveat emptor would be a bit nice too though: If the community is using terms like SSBBW and a lot seems too good to be true, then perhaps some research would have been in order.
It is best that openness and positivity be promoted in the community. Self-censoring people uncomfortable with the fetish aspects is helpful at times. At the same time again a lot of these women may indeed have been glad they were exposed to feederism and obviously the MSM would not be too keen to talk about that.
TikTok is made by a company from China, an authoritarian country where not just pornography but tattoos and overt displays of homosexuality in the media are all banned entirely, so the fact their channel was deplatformed really doesn't surprise me. China is also far more fatphobic than the United States, so that couldn't have helped.
1 day
