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I love to see people fattened up and with plump guts and other parts on one hand I would love to try it for myself and on the other hand I’d be too scared thoughts like will everyone just will I lose my dick in fat will it even feel good to have a gut? If anyone had these thoughts and still went and gained can you tell me how your life has been now?

You do not have to rush into anything big, just listen to your own body and The Freak Circus focus on what makes you happy.

Someone on here once said that if you masturbate to the fantasy of getting fatter and after you come, you no longer want to get/be fat, you shouldn't do it. You either aren't ready or should simply keep it as a fantasy.

People on here are going to tell you to "go for it" or "do what makes you happy," but getting fat carries many consequences that make the decision really complex.

Its def a commitment even if you just gain a couple pounds cause it's gonna be way more work to lose it than to put it on.

I gained for a little while but ultimately decided on keeping it as a fantasy due to life needing me to be active + just rising costs of everything.

Nothing wrong with keeping it a fantasy though. Stuff like art, stories, rp, or even just an indulgent meal will scratch the itch for me at least.

Losing your dick in the fat is something people enjoy. If you just don't know what to do with your life then remember that you do know. You can get fat.

Dolkite is wise, and it's important to think such a decision through. Some people actually panic when they realize they have put on too much weight and realize that they are in a in a body much bigger and there is no fast way back. Gaining is in this community sexy for most people, me included, but each individual should think it through in my opinion. I'm pro-gaining, don't think anything else, but it affects the person doing it, and that's what needs to be thought of in advance.

I was afraid to gain weight at first. Then I went for it and haven't looked back. Though ask yourself if you really want to get bigger. What I would do is give it a try, gain a little bit of weight to see if you like it or not. If you don't then you don't need to gain more.

Gaining may sound fun at first, but if you start, you also need to know that it wont be all "eat and stuff and play and horny and repeat". You also still have your life and also need to know that even if its a little weight, there are still things you have to consider such as health. Listening to your body should never be underestimated.

As for me, i aint gaining yet cuz im just scared of getting stared at in places i am already seen as a common sight. Dont want anyone recognizing me and be like "oh my, you gotten huge." qwq

I have a sedentary job, so I was not worried that gaining weight would affect my work.

The biggest challenge for me was getting over the fear of what other people would think or say about me. I was fortunate in that I relocated for a job that moved me away from my friends or family. Yes, some of them would eventually see me as I gained weight, but it was not a daily concern.

I gained weight and, while my co-workers noticed it, they generally said nothing about it. The times I met with old friends and family turned out to be nowhere near as frightening as I thought. Some mentioned my weight gain, but it was more in passing and not a big deal at all.

This emboldened me to really ramp up the weight gain and, thanks to the high turnover rate at my job, we have a lot of new, young employees who have always known me as fat.

I love being fat and have enjoyed the weight gain process. I have zero regrets, but keep in mind that gaining weight is much easier than losing weight. If you're curious, read about set-point theory. For many people, weight gain is a one-way road.

If you're unsure, you can always try gaining a little weight, perhaps 25 pounds or so, just to see how you feel about it. If you like it, you can always gain a little more. If you don't like it, then it's best to stop. If you end up loving it, like I do, you may find yourself going all-in and using heavy whipping cream to rapidly gain weight (think 5+ pounds per week).