If I am understanding this correctly -
I would say there are a lot of differences within this fetish, and I assume from a self feeding perspective or feedee is what you primarily mean - I guess there are a lot of things that stand out:
1. Eating with reckless abandon in front of other people and not caring. Being that some that are fat or their appetite has expanded even though really hungry would try and contain it slightly in front of others. My wife knowing that I like her heavier while her appetite expanded greatly would continue to eat in front of me and not even be shy about ordering two desserts for herself when we were out to dinner just being the two of us, but if we went out with couples friends she was more controlled and didn’t eat as much, then come home and eat a pint of ice cream and many cookies.
I also feel like a lot of people can admire fat on another person, especially the shock of someone who has recently gained. They seem to want to look and even want to touch. I don’t believe this make a person who absolutely loves weight gain but they are certainly intrigued.
Also, there are some that accidentally gain weight and seem to like it on themselves and do t mind continuing to gain. There appetites expand and they keep gaining until they don’t like it and try to lose it. There are varying degrees.
Myself, I have always loved weight gain on women, girlfriends & my wife. I could never gain weight when I was younger and as that changed and I accidentally gained I found another arousal for me getting a huge gut. I now consider my self very into weight gain on all, a slight feeder or maybe encourager, a feedee myself and also very into mutual gaining. Also, my weight I desire on women and my wife has o LY increased dramatically as I became older - likewise on myself, only I can’t imagine myself 350+ pounds but it would be fun if I could snap my fingers and be that size for a weekend getaway with my wife - I would also snap my finger for my wife to be 400 pounds that same weekend!
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