rund wrote
It is not difficult to find a male feeder, chubby chaser etc.
Don't I wish... Sigh. FF guys tell me this 'fact' all the time, but I have to say, given that I won't just date *anyone* just because he's a feeder, I have yet to find someone who lives within dating distance with whom I can hold a conversation and who is a feeder or, better yet, mutual gainer.
The grass is always greener... And you have my every empathy.