Hmm, i'd say maybe take a break, if its something you've only just discovered, maybe you need time to really explore it and if shes not willing to support that, you may need to go seperate ways.
I'm not saying she should throw her life and body away to suit your desires, but these things aren't something which we can control, she doesn't have to like it, but if she feels uncomfortable that you feel this way, she may need to move on...
14 years
