Get him to watch 9 1/2 weeks with you, the strawberry feeding scene (granted, man feeding woman) is pretty hot. Then you can build off of that, especially with your plan of the chocolate dipped strawberries.
But note: for most people, being fed is not particularly erotic, and most likely will never be particularly erotic. So be prepared for the possibility that no matter how much you enjoy it, and how well it all works out....that it may not be something in which he ever gets much interested.
But good luck!
14 years
