For me becoming a carer for a immobile woman would be something i have wanted for many years. That said i believe there are very important moral issues that need to be addressed before entering into a relationship of weight gain. 100% commitment from the carer / feeder is required once the person has gained or has reached a near or immobile condition and the realitys of the time and care required to keep the person clean happy and comfortable on a 24/7 basis are a reality it would not be morally correct to leave the said person. Also it must be the gainers own choice to become immobile without emotional blackmail,pressure, or the feeder/partners personal sexual desires. A mutual agreement with defined rules. Also if the gainers health or physical comfort becomes to much, then the feeder/carer needs to respect and support the wishes of there partner if they wish to loose weight for whatever reason. Also before entering into such relationship there has to be more than physical attraction {your be spending your whole time together] so mutual intrests within the home are extremly important ie sense of humour, music, films, books, ect. Personally i think you would need to live together for a good period of time before entering into a program of massive weight gain. Alternativly possibly find a partner who is already immobile and see where the relationship leads. ........................this is only my opinions i wonder what everyone thinks?
14 years