Extreme obesity

I think there are two important issues here:

1. I think that controversy starts if the original poster says something that is consciously or unconsciously hurtful to others here.

2. I think sometimes people express preferences in unfortunate ways. It's one thing to say 'I really love watching a slender young woman sprout a little belly' vs. 'I don't really like dating fat girls.' It's all in the execution.

Not everyone is going to be super-careful about what they say, so sometimes things are going to flare up.

Real is better than taking about it,

I am totally against people using this board to talk about weight loss, especially using the gainers section to plot their weight loss goals. People are free to do what they want, but they need to do it in the appropriate place. (A Synagogue is not the place to announce you have found Jesus.)

As far as anything else, everyone has their preferences and what they are into, and not everyone else on the site are into the same things.

That's because tummy rubs are like sports. They are WAAAAAAY more fun to be doing than talking about or watching. X-P