Gaining

This is just something that popped into my head recently. My mother-in-law is on the big side, as well as my father-in-law. My fiancée was on the chubby side last summer (long story short, she dropped 20 lbs because she's in the US Army now as a musician). She still is chubby (round belly), but was bigger before she dropped the weight.

I never would have guessed her weight at that point (170 lbs) and her mother was around 200-210 lbs (my fiancée is 23, her mother is 44). They're about the same height, but her mother is a lot bigger, especially around her belly, ass and chest.

Does this mean that down the road, I could be looking at a my fiancée's genetics allowing her to be bigger. She did mention that her mother's chest had grown because of the fact that she's had 4 kids (we're looking to have 2).

I'm aware that later on (we're going to be married on paper, won't be having the big thing till next year), she'll gain after the wedding and during/after pregnancy. Is it possible that by seeing how her mother turned out (only 20 years older than her) would she gain some of the physical traits of her mother.

To also add, they're both foodees, and by that I mean that they both love to eat and would snack at all times if able to. My mother-in-law loves to cook and always tastes what she's making, and my fiancée has started to turn out the same way.

I was just wondering that since my mother-in-law is big, will my fiancée be big. Any comments would be appreciated, as well as any other input.

anyone?

My grandmother is skinny, but my mother and sister are both fat. My fiancée has always been chubby (only down to 150 lbs, because it's what she needs to be to graduate her training) and her mother is big.

All I can hope for is that once she's stationed and doesn't have all the constant training to do, she'll let herself get soft again (we've actually talked about this ) and let her genetics take their course. I'd love to see her 20 years from now being bigger than her mother ever was (then again, I have no idea if her mother was ever bigger than she is now).

That's exactly what I'm hoping for. I'm hoping to see the extra weight pile on in a few years, just need to keep up her habits

I've openly told her that I love her no matter what weight, thin or fat. I just never want her to be a stick, and neither does she want to be one anyway. I've also told her that I love her chubbyness and softness. I think she's aware that I like her with a bit of fat, so as long as she lets her habits and genetics take over, she'll balloon into an amazing fat wife

Figured I should keep everyone updated - I spent the weekend with her and she's still as soft and she's actually gained weight (mostly muscle) but she's put on 6 lbs in a month and she's back to 160 I have a feeling that once she's on her own, genetics will take over.

There are no guarantees. Genetics can roll weird combinations, some of genetics is which genes are actually turned on or off and that can change a lot between generations, we get partially programmed as a foetus and baby depending on what happens to us, and of course lifestyle plays a role. That is just what her body will tend to do on its own, but then she has free will and a brain, and can take action to drastically change things.

So is looking at her parents some sort of indication of what genetics she may have, as well as what sort of lifestyle she grew up with? Sure. But it is a bit like predicting the success of a professional athlete based on their high school career….just look at how unpredictable draft picks are in any league!

In my case when I met my now wife she was pretty thin, but then I met her BHM dad and SSBBW mom, and figured she was destined to become quite fat. She did track that way for several years, then decided she’d gotten larger than she was comfortable being, reversed a couple of years worth of it, and has stayed in the chubby/smallBBW range ever since, a good ten dress sizes smaller than her mom was at the same age.

Finally thought I would update....seeing as we had a talking breakthrough today. I openly admitted that I like bigger girls, and she had figured it out by all the hints I had dropped. She's completely ok with it, and doesn't mind the idea of gaining a bit of weight

She has been on her own since June 25, and she's back up to 165 (she doesn't look even close). She was 152 before she left, so 13 lb gain in 3 months, I like those odds. Of course most of it is probably muscle. (or not )

I did visit her for a week in August, and I will say that she has remained a bit flabby Her belly still exists and her thighs are huge Even her breasts have grown a bit

We talked about her eventually gaining weight (post pregnancy and eventual retiring) and she liked the idea of it (especially letting herself go after she retires). She would have no problem getting up in the 180s and seeing how she likes it.

I told her that I would like to see her hit 200, but will never push her into it, unless she really wants to do it.

I think tonight was a major breakthrough, and we'll be discussing it more when I move out there in January. Hopefully I can expect to see a much bigger wife when that happens

August 2010 - 170 lbs
November 2010 - 152 lbs
March 2011 - 154 lbs
May 2011 - 160 lbs
June 2011 - 152 lbs
September 2011 - 165 lbs
January 2012 - 170+ lbs?