Everyone always misses the point here. Someone who is hell bent in losing weight, DOES NOT have the same personality as someone who is staying a BBW or gaining. So, it's just not a matter of physical attraction. It is a matter of growing apart, and not being anythng like the person they married. It would be different if his wife got sick and lost weight. Her personality would be the same in that case.
Plus, I have known many people who have either died from WLS, or has become disabled from it. So, I can't blame anyone not only not wanting to see a loved one becoming less attractive to them, but foolishly mutilating their bodies to attain it.
13 years
