A little bit of input through a story on my end: Kind of long just trying to get it all down!
I have always loved fuller figure/curvy girls and women. I also am very into them gaining weight especially my wife. As the years have gone on I desire more weight and fat on there figures. My wife is very aware that I like fuller figures(Fat)on women although I don't think she would imagine me loving her at 300+ Lbs. which I absolutly dream of and would love.
She happens to be a very curvy hour glass/pear figure @ 5' 3" with big round breasts, when she gains a good amount of weight she turns more into a full pearish figure with huge hips/thighs and a big lower belly along with big breasts and fat upper arms but her back doesn't get much bigger. Currently she is around 155 Lbs. At her heaviest she was just over 200 Lbs. She looked amazing at her heaviest in my eyes. I actually have dreams of her fattening up and getting really big.
Here's where I think I can relate to your post and possibly shed some light. I don't really discuss gaining with her anymore because she gets bugged and it puts her in a bad mood. She was chubby and heavier as a kid and always thinks of herself as being fat even though I think she is skinny and I tell her that. I never bring up or discuss her gaining weight anymore, I just kind of realish in the times where she starts piggin out a little more and I can see her gaining weight. These times seem to get fewer and fewer these days and she tends to look skinnier in my eyes because my interest in fat on her and in general has gone up over the years, like I said previously.
So there has been several times over the last couple years where all of a sudden I felt hungrier all the time and was eating fast foods, drinking lots of soda etc. and my appetite seemed to really increase. All of a sudden I noticed my pants were tighter, my t-shirts started really being tight on my belly and I became really turned on. I was so turned on something switched in me and all I wanted to do is pig out on fattening things and constantly have my gut bulging out and to see how fat and big I could get.
Now my wife mentioned to me a long time ago when we were dating and it has kind of stuck, that she was disgusted by guys with big asses. I don't have a big ass not even that big when I was ever at my heaviest but she has also alluded to liking a more cut look on guys back in the day. Ever since she has known me I have been pretty mucsular and at times somewhat cut up but not totally cut up and at other times when I am lifting heavy I get pretty big and muscular with a little belly and a thicker layer of fat all over. She has never really commented other than when I am to big muscularly and she has also commented in a positive way a bit when I am thinner and more cut up. Don't get me wrong if she told me she would get nice and fat for me if I dieted down and get as cut up for her if that would excite her.
The reason I feel through these few times where I was interested in myself gaining was because of the lack of fattening that I was seeing on her, a very long "dry spell" if you will. I was acting out in some way to get this fix entered into the relationship and marriage. I so much want to have Gaining entered into my marriage that I was getting the fix through myself gaining.
So, back to getting this out in the open with your girl like the other post mentioned you could do all sorts of things just to see a reaction. I tried several which were actually really kind of exciting from the whole weight gain perspective.
I made a point of eating way more in front of my wife it was kind of easy because my appetite was huge. I would ask for seconds after she already prepared me a pretty good size portion for dinner especially if it was a heavy fattening dinner such as Lasagna. A few times I even asked for thirds just trying to get a reaction out of her, It was a struggle trying to finish the plate and still I didn't get a reaction out of her. What gives she didn't even comment, surely she can see how much bigger I am and now I have eaten a whole have baked pan of Lasagna to myself. To top it off the next night for dinner She gave me the hugest portion of chicken and Pasta and mashed potatoes the plate was literly overflowing and it was an oversized plate. Could it be she wants me fat and she is going to "feed me fat". I was so turned on thinking this way.
I was clearly gaining more weight she didn't mention a thing, I could not fit into any of my dress slacks which rnaged from 34-36" I had to where some more casual Kakhis to work now that I had from when I was bigger, they were a size 40" and they fit pretty good not to big actually sized up perfect. My belly looked big and full all the time now not just when I was stuffed.
I tried several more things to get some sort of a reaction out of her. I was almost wanting and waiting for her to comment and mention my gain. I so much wanted to hear out of her mouth for some reason, "Wow" "someone is starting to get pretty porky"! I was actually dreaming of this moment and thinking of how it would make me feel. Almost like a soft patting and rubbing on my new fat belly when I least expected it in a teasing way.
So I decided to make sure when I was kissing her good bye in the morning before I left for work to really have my newly big distended belly squish into to her while I held her for that kiss. It was completly obvious to me it was kind of difficult to move into her lips with my belly getting in the way but i jus slowly squished it right into her and locked lips for a bit onger than usual so she cold really feel all of me. She mentioned nothing all day.
I was determied to get her to say something. She has to have noticed I have gained almost 20 Lbs. and almost all of it into my belly. I had it planned out for tonight, I was not going to eat much at lunch being that my appetite started slowing down a bit I was going to save up and try and eat thirds at dinner tonight followed with an obnoxious amount of ice cream directly following to have my belly so huge and full with that lone she would have to comment on my eating so much plus all the fattening ice cream. My back up plan if that was not enough to get a comment out of her was to Take a shower after dinner and change into a pair of boxers that dont fit anymore and a smaller t-shirt which most of them all were now.
Dinner and desert were done and I had never felt so full and sick to my stomach from eating as this night. While I was in the shower Gently massaged my huge distended gut to try and comfort it, I was amazed at how big and full it was. After I got out to my surprise I didnt even have to find a smaller t-shirt I jst grabbed an all white one that was slightly shorter and it not onlu hugged my huge gut but was skin tight around my newly formed love handles and back it rose up in the front with ease when i sat down not to mention starined even that much more aroung my huge belly when sitting. I could tell for the first time when sitting with my regular boxers on that my thighs beefed up as well,the boxers were skin tight when they rose up on my thighs. I should not have had to do much for her to notice how fat I have gotten other than sit there on the couch with her and my t-shirt squeezing every square inch of my new huge gut along with it riding up and seeing my lower belly. After several hours of watching TV she said she was going to go to bed, I said me to so we stood up and I walked a couple steps and pulled her in for a kiss which I strained to get to her lips with mine because of my huge gut that was equivalent to a nine month pregnancy belly that evening.
Through all this she did not mention anything. So, depending on how your girl is and how open she is comunicating with you, you might want to ask her rather than leaving it up to not so subtle hints. My wife on the other hand is very to herself but to this day I still can't believe she said nothing. Part of me wants to believe she changed her mind and wants me to get fat for her. Then when I wake up and if I actually asked her about it now, she would probably say something like, "I didn't now you wanted me to tell you you are turning into a *** because that's the last thing I want someone is to tell me when I gain a lot of weight, when I already know I am eating like a pig and to getting fat"
I have always loved fuller figure/curvy girls and women. I also am very into them gaining weight especially my wife. As the years have gone on I desire more weight and fat on there figures. My wife is very aware that I like fuller figures(Fat)on women although I don't think she would imagine me loving her at 300+ Lbs. which I absolutly dream of and would love.
She happens to be a very curvy hour glass/pear figure @ 5' 3" with big round breasts, when she gains a good amount of weight she turns more into a full pearish figure with huge hips/thighs and a big lower belly along with big breasts and fat upper arms but her back doesn't get much bigger. Currently she is around 155 Lbs. At her heaviest she was just over 200 Lbs. She looked amazing at her heaviest in my eyes. I actually have dreams of her fattening up and getting really big.
Here's where I think I can relate to your post and possibly shed some light. I don't really discuss gaining with her anymore because she gets bugged and it puts her in a bad mood. She was chubby and heavier as a kid and always thinks of herself as being fat even though I think she is skinny and I tell her that. I never bring up or discuss her gaining weight anymore, I just kind of realish in the times where she starts piggin out a little more and I can see her gaining weight. These times seem to get fewer and fewer these days and she tends to look skinnier in my eyes because my interest in fat on her and in general has gone up over the years, like I said previously.
So there has been several times over the last couple years where all of a sudden I felt hungrier all the time and was eating fast foods, drinking lots of soda etc. and my appetite seemed to really increase. All of a sudden I noticed my pants were tighter, my t-shirts started really being tight on my belly and I became really turned on. I was so turned on something switched in me and all I wanted to do is pig out on fattening things and constantly have my gut bulging out and to see how fat and big I could get.
Now my wife mentioned to me a long time ago when we were dating and it has kind of stuck, that she was disgusted by guys with big asses. I don't have a big ass not even that big when I was ever at my heaviest but she has also alluded to liking a more cut look on guys back in the day. Ever since she has known me I have been pretty mucsular and at times somewhat cut up but not totally cut up and at other times when I am lifting heavy I get pretty big and muscular with a little belly and a thicker layer of fat all over. She has never really commented other than when I am to big muscularly and she has also commented in a positive way a bit when I am thinner and more cut up. Don't get me wrong if she told me she would get nice and fat for me if I dieted down and get as cut up for her if that would excite her.
The reason I feel through these few times where I was interested in myself gaining was because of the lack of fattening that I was seeing on her, a very long "dry spell" if you will. I was acting out in some way to get this fix entered into the relationship and marriage. I so much want to have Gaining entered into my marriage that I was getting the fix through myself gaining.
So, back to getting this out in the open with your girl like the other post mentioned you could do all sorts of things just to see a reaction. I tried several which were actually really kind of exciting from the whole weight gain perspective.
I made a point of eating way more in front of my wife it was kind of easy because my appetite was huge. I would ask for seconds after she already prepared me a pretty good size portion for dinner especially if it was a heavy fattening dinner such as Lasagna. A few times I even asked for thirds just trying to get a reaction out of her, It was a struggle trying to finish the plate and still I didn't get a reaction out of her. What gives she didn't even comment, surely she can see how much bigger I am and now I have eaten a whole have baked pan of Lasagna to myself. To top it off the next night for dinner She gave me the hugest portion of chicken and Pasta and mashed potatoes the plate was literly overflowing and it was an oversized plate. Could it be she wants me fat and she is going to "feed me fat". I was so turned on thinking this way.
I was clearly gaining more weight she didn't mention a thing, I could not fit into any of my dress slacks which rnaged from 34-36" I had to where some more casual Kakhis to work now that I had from when I was bigger, they were a size 40" and they fit pretty good not to big actually sized up perfect. My belly looked big and full all the time now not just when I was stuffed.
I tried several more things to get some sort of a reaction out of her. I was almost wanting and waiting for her to comment and mention my gain. I so much wanted to hear out of her mouth for some reason, "Wow" "someone is starting to get pretty porky"! I was actually dreaming of this moment and thinking of how it would make me feel. Almost like a soft patting and rubbing on my new fat belly when I least expected it in a teasing way.
So I decided to make sure when I was kissing her good bye in the morning before I left for work to really have my newly big distended belly squish into to her while I held her for that kiss. It was completly obvious to me it was kind of difficult to move into her lips with my belly getting in the way but i jus slowly squished it right into her and locked lips for a bit onger than usual so she cold really feel all of me. She mentioned nothing all day.
I was determied to get her to say something. She has to have noticed I have gained almost 20 Lbs. and almost all of it into my belly. I had it planned out for tonight, I was not going to eat much at lunch being that my appetite started slowing down a bit I was going to save up and try and eat thirds at dinner tonight followed with an obnoxious amount of ice cream directly following to have my belly so huge and full with that lone she would have to comment on my eating so much plus all the fattening ice cream. My back up plan if that was not enough to get a comment out of her was to Take a shower after dinner and change into a pair of boxers that dont fit anymore and a smaller t-shirt which most of them all were now.
Dinner and desert were done and I had never felt so full and sick to my stomach from eating as this night. While I was in the shower Gently massaged my huge distended gut to try and comfort it, I was amazed at how big and full it was. After I got out to my surprise I didnt even have to find a smaller t-shirt I jst grabbed an all white one that was slightly shorter and it not onlu hugged my huge gut but was skin tight around my newly formed love handles and back it rose up in the front with ease when i sat down not to mention starined even that much more aroung my huge belly when sitting. I could tell for the first time when sitting with my regular boxers on that my thighs beefed up as well,the boxers were skin tight when they rose up on my thighs. I should not have had to do much for her to notice how fat I have gotten other than sit there on the couch with her and my t-shirt squeezing every square inch of my new huge gut along with it riding up and seeing my lower belly. After several hours of watching TV she said she was going to go to bed, I said me to so we stood up and I walked a couple steps and pulled her in for a kiss which I strained to get to her lips with mine because of my huge gut that was equivalent to a nine month pregnancy belly that evening.
Through all this she did not mention anything. So, depending on how your girl is and how open she is comunicating with you, you might want to ask her rather than leaving it up to not so subtle hints. My wife on the other hand is very to herself but to this day I still can't believe she said nothing. Part of me wants to believe she changed her mind and wants me to get fat for her. Then when I wake up and if I actually asked her about it now, she would probably say something like, "I didn't now you wanted me to tell you you are turning into a *** because that's the last thing I want someone is to tell me when I gain a lot of weight, when I already know I am eating like a pig and to getting fat"
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