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AskDrFeeder   United States
Joined 16 years
Has anyone been dumped for telling their gf/bf that they're a feeder or feeedee?

If so, was it because feedism is a requirement of yours? Or because they just couldn't even accept that it was your fantasy?
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Dabrow1991   United States
Joined 15 years
it most defiantly put a strain on a relationship of mine and contributed to its ending. well that and she started sleeping with the guy who was gonna be the best man lol
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Dabrow1991   United States
Joined 15 years
the issue for me wasnt her getting bigger it was her getting smaller. She was already really skinny ( l70) and lost fifty pounds. it didnt look healthy lol
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AskDrFeeder   United States
Joined 16 years
LovesBigMen wrote:
I've never been open about my feedism before on a relationship, but I don't see how it could ultimately work if both of us aren't into this.


Yes but:

1. How will you know the other person's into it if you don't tell them you are?

2. Maybe they can learn to be into it. Has happened.
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AskDrFeeder   United States
Joined 16 years
CakeForBreakfast wrote:
...and eventually that and a bunch of other stuff piled up and I decided, NOPE, DONE.


Good for you!
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AskDrFeeder   United States
Joined 16 years
BlimpCityF wrote:
It did cause a break-up as when the desire got stronger, my exgf felt she could not satisfy me as she was an emotional eater as opposed to 'feedist' so deep down I was toxic for her.


Congrats to you both for having the maturity to recognize that problem.
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Studmuffintop   Australia
Joined 15 years
Vintage Smut wrote:
ehhh, I've come to a point where I am not really interested unless I have the potential to make them fat. I don't feel like hiding it anymore like I did in my early 20's. Get fat or F*ck off smiley


haha I love that attitude
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OniGumo   United States
Joined 18 years
I feel like feederism would be a necessity for me in the relationship.
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Green Eyes Dose   United States
Joined 15 years
Deal breaker for sure. I am always upfront about my fetish just so I don't waste time. Wish everyone else did too.
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Culbuto   Switzerland
Joined 18 years
Vintage Smut wrote:
ehhh, I've come to a point where I am not really interested unless I have the potential to make them fat. I don't feel like hiding it anymore like I did in my early 20's. Get fat or F*ck off smiley

You are definetely right, feeder ladies like you are too noble and rare to waste there time and talent with fantasy stuff.
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