Men or women & weight gain???

Joined 17 years

I don't know if this has been discussed already?

It seems like there are more men into weight gain on themselves than women on this site?

I guess it is kind of tough because of so many variations because I myself was interested only in weight gain on females initially, then I got into feeder related weight gain with my girlfriends back when, and then I even got into weight gain on myself through Mutual gaining.....and currently I even go through several month periods where I stuff myself and try to gain as much weight as I can and love how Fat I get.

It would be interesting to listen to both the men and women on this site weigh in to weight gain, feeder and mutual feeding and the chronological order of how they developed in each persons situation. Also, if so, if one of the areas changed and overtook there desires to a greater percentage. For example: I was always into weight gain on women the most and still am but say I changed and like weight gain on myself way more now than on women.....you get the idea.

10 years

Men or women & weight gain???

AskDrFeeder

Joined 16 years

In my childhood fantasies I was into gaining myself and into girls gaining.

At some point in adolescence I lost interest in gaining myself and was only interested in women gaining.

I've been that way ever since.

10 years

Men or women & weight gain???

Fanedfox

Joined 15 years

This is a surprisingly complicated question. I have been fascinated by weight gain since before puberty. I was more into women gaining than myself, but lately have been gaining and really enjoying it. My wife is a BBW which certainly helps. She does not know that my recent weight gain has been deliberate, but she has to notice. She also still makes sure I get enough to eat. I still would truly love a mutual gaining relationship, but I doubt that will ever happen.

10 years

Men or women & weight gain???

Voluptuouslover

Joined 17 years

AskDrFeeder wrote:
In my childhood fantasies I was into gaining myself and into girls gaining.

At some point in adolescence I lost interest in gaining myself and was only interested in women gaining.

I've been that way ever since.

Interesting how everyone is slightly different and change there likes with weight gain.

One thing that seems common is that more people seem to get into other areas of weight gain and there liking.

Someone that starts out liking weight gain on women can easily transfer over to liking and wanting weight gain on themselves or even mutually.

I wonder if this has to do with the fact that they are not having weight gain with there significant other in there relationship and then they seek to have weight gain in there life and start fattening up themselves and really like it. I have thought that was the primary reason in my case. But then again the mutual fattening or gaining is definitely the most exciting to think about and actually do.

10 years

Men or women & weight gain???

Voluptuouslover

Joined 17 years

growingbellyboy wrote:
For me, I never wanted to gain any weight until I started college. Then I started toying with the idea of gaining some weight, but never went through with it. I would stuff myself at the school's dining hall once in a while and think that it might be fun to fatten up, but never did. I probably would've gained if a S/O wanted me to, but I wouldn't have been crazy about it. Back then I'd say I was about 90/10% in favor of being the feeder.

Then over the next couple of years I completely changed. I started liking the idea of gaining weight more and more. Ideally I'd love a mutual gaining relationship, but if I couldn't have that and had to choose between being the feeder or feedee, I would definitely choose to be the feedee. A few years ago that wouldn't have been the case at all. So today, I'd say my desire is about 80% to see myself gain and 20% to see others gain. I still love to see others gain, but gaining myself has been so enjoyable that I lean towards that now.

Not really sure what triggered this change in me. I think it might just be because I've never actually had a feederism-type relationship irl so the only gain I can see first hand is my own. I don't think I would ever go back either, gaining is too much fun.

Interesting stuff .....I can certainly relate. For me I think I found gaining weight on myself so satisfying was because there was a lack of gaining on my wives figure. Although I agree gaining weight myself there is always something there to view, feel and work at getting bigger and it is always right there.

10 years

Men or women & weight gain???

Voluptuouslover

Joined 17 years

swell wrote:
If my health problems didn't make gaining more than what I'm at now very problematic, I would probably be more into intentional mutual gaining. But as it stands, I'm more into being the feeder.

Ideally, I'd yo-yo for the rest of my life, losing for the express purpose of gaining it back. But as losing weight is so hard with my health problems I'm just enjoying eating whatever I want within reason and more or less maintaining.

Sorry to hear that! Love your name Swell! Feeding is still pretty fun....watching and guessing where the next Lbs. will show up is definitely a favorite of mine.....especially when I see my wife eating out of control at certain times.

10 years

Men or women & weight gain???

Voluptuouslover

Joined 17 years

browneyedfeedee wrote:
Keep in mind, women are punished in our society for being fat, so that could be one reason why women on this website (and in life) are not so open to gaining. I would be more open to it if I didn't have to deal with discrimination. Also, health concerns and having to buy new clothes are a concern

Makes sense! I wish it were not so

10 years

Men or women & weight gain???

Voluptuouslover

Joined 17 years

Luvsabigbelly wrote:
I myself have always been drawn to fuller figure woman. But, also found it very arousing and erotic to mutually gain with a BBW or SSBBW since puberty. With time and age, I packed on the pounds and enjoyed the experience of growing fat!

Yep......Have always loved fuller figure women....who am I kidding...I love em Fat! But I do realize that Mutual Gaining has to be the sexiest.

10 years