fatso25 wrote:
This is all to common with any online community and says far more about him and his own fears/insecurities/dishonesty etc than it does about you.
Don't let it put you off but do remember that things are rarely as they seem online and protect your heart accordinglying.
A lot of people love the fantasy side of things and think they want it to be reality until they have the chance and then are overcome with fear and cowardice.
Very true, couldn't have said it better myself. Essex also touched base on some points that you should try to check to see how active they are on the site. Some guys are constantly making new profiles to hide from others who they are. Some really are on just for the fetish and to get their rocks off.
