General

TheStoryteller wrote:
Well, I'm not really on this site for any purpose other than reading stories, but I just kind of feel alone with my fetish. FFAs appear to be the rarest type of fat fetishists, and it feels bad not to have a friend I can share my feelings and thoughts with.
I mean sure, I can tell my friends I really want this ultra-chubby guy and that I think he's sexy, but they can't relate to any of that.
Just felt like sharing this.

tamaghis wrote:
[quote]russiandoll wrote:
lone, yes we are rare but in recent years I have noticed that we are growing.

Elanor wrote:


It's so disappointing when right of the bat it's "hey baby, I love how fat you are, you should gain loads more!" No introductions, nothing. Like I'm not a person at all...

But to get back on topic: it isn't always fun being "the only gay in the village". I think lots of people feel isolated because of something that doesn't make them quite fit in, be it being an FFA, an FA, a feeder, or a BBW/BHM. And that's just our little niche fetish. I bet there's lots of other people struggling with feelings of loneliness for a slew of reasons too.

TheStoryteller wrote:
Well, I'm not really on this site for any purpose other than reading stories, but I just kind of feel alone with my fetish. FFAs appear to be the rarest type of fat fetishists, and it feels bad not to have a friend I can share my feelings and thoughts with.
I mean sure, I can tell my friends I really want this ultra-chubby guy and that I think he's sexy, but they can't relate to any of that.
Just felt like sharing this.

onlyagirlafraid wrote:
Seriously got a message that asked if I wanted to be some guy's *** pig, and it only got more vulgar from there. I didn't know this person, never talked to them or commented on their stuff. Days like that, you wanna wipe your account and never come back.

onlyagirlafraid wrote:
Thanks Luvhandles. I feel like we have talked before but you were under a different name then. Love your stories by the way. 😊

Belly Admirer wrote:
I think most people in this community do feel alone or alienated at some point or another, onsite or off.

However, I can very much relate to feeling out of place here sometimes as an FFA/female feeder. There seems to be an automatic assumption from many male members that all the women here are BBWs or aspire to be such. Not true!

I get frustrated with all the FAs on this site sometimes. I understand why they are here, as it is the same reason I'm here, but I would say at least 75% of the men I chat with here would prefer it if I was chubby myself.

On the other hand, sometimes I feel I have a lot of common with the FAs and male feeders and have had some great conversations, each respecting the other's current size and disinterest in gaining but enjoying being able to discuss that we like it in others.

At the end of the day, it really comes down to the individual. Some people are jerks. Some people are perfectly nice but have little in common with you. Etc.

I think I've wandered quite off topic. As for real life . . . I can also relate to what the OP said about it being awkward to discuss in real life. Personally, I will admit to preferring chubby guys if it happens to come up, but I've never mentioned the feeder aspect of it all. That's definitely one reason I'm on this site. It feels good to make "friends" (albeit online) I can talk to about all this and know that they relate rather than just thinking I'm strange.

So yeah, if anyone wants a friend (especially if you're another FFA/female feeder who feels out of place sometimes here), I'm open to chatting with most anyone at least once to see if we've got anything to talk about.