I have been an encourager of my wife's weight in the past and currently. I finished up my reserve military service and am no longer under any weight/fitness standards.  I have started gaining and have put on around fifteen pounds in the last two years.  I'm currently heavier than I have been is years and I am enjoying the feeling of the extra weight.  My wife tried to diet last January and went on a serious eating healthy kick.  I ate burgers, pasta and pretty much stayed with what in the past had been our usual fair.  I enjoyed the irony of she trying to lose while I tried to gain.  Good luck, hopefully you will find someone.
      
      
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