Gaining

Well i have been with my GF for nearly 5 years and for around 3 of those she always exercised and was anti-fat and only weighed around 60kgs, but when she started her office job she slowly started gaining and i must say i kinda encouraged her to eat a few more snacks after dinner.

Now 2 years on she would be close to 82kgs and man is she sexy!, she has a few stretch marks on the side of her stomach and her thighs have stretch marks, she has mever said anything about them but i think they are sexy.

About 2 months ago she tried on her old jeans and couldnt get them past her thighs, which made her decide to exercise which unfortunately ment i had to as well (as ive gained around the same amount of weight) so the exercise lasted about a month and in the end she just bought bigger jeans which i was happy about.

But i have noticed in the last fortnight she has started to pat my stomach more and grab my moobs and she isnt afraid to grab my stomach with 2 hands and give it a wobble, it ,makes me smile. I also think she kinda likes me this way .

I just wish i could be open with her and for her too accept and engaged in this great society of weight gain. But i dont think she will understand how sexy i think she is now she is carrying more weight and i want to see her weigh around 100kgs but i dont want her to go back the way she used to be, she is happier and more outgoing now, ill just keep secretly encouraging her and see how it goes

I would just love us to be a plump couple weighing 100kgs each enjoying our food and our larger bodies

First off....Great story...these real life stories are the best!

Isn't it amazing what a new office job or desk job can do..coupled with less workouts. I totally agree with you that when women gain weight and enjoy their eating and have fattening snacks they become more relaxed and less up tight and more affectionate.....they seem in a better mood most of the time for not denying themselves.

I have noticed the same thing as you with in the last few years with regard to my wife liking the "Fatter Me". Early on she complained about guy's that were over weight....and said she would get my butt in shape if I ever got out of shape and Fat like that....and it has been many, many , many years since that talk..... and the main difference back then was she was younger, naive and mostly was a work out queen and always at the gym... before I cured her of that habit. Fast forward many years and she is more Beautiful than ever and there is much more of her to Love...I to have gained a lot from my once thinner/leaner muscular self....to looking more beefy and muscular like a muscle chub with a nice big Gut. I have found when my wife is gaining weight she actually seems really into me gaining and she almost helps me along to gain more by fixing me way larger portions at meals and bringing me seconds even before I ask. I have come to realize when she is heavier and slowly gaining it makes her feel comfortable to have me getting bigger and fattening up also. She also has seemed to like my much bigger belly and softly squeezes my softer pecs....okay moobs now I guess. She has recently gone to work for a new company in the same industry and started to gain some weight and has not worked out forever. She had a week off after a business trip that we had already planned and our vacation fell through so we stayed at home and she tried to go to the gym every bit she could.....mostly because her new work outfits seem to be straining and she doesn't want to replenish her work wardrobe. So she is eating better and trying to snack less which I don't like. It has now been over a month and her workout routine has stayed to course and she has been eating less and losing a bit more weight... and she went even as far as to make a comment to me the other day after dinner....which she never does...she said as I went to the pantry to grab a box of cookies after dinner "you might want to slow down on the snacks" I was in awe....I thought to myself okay so you are going to the gym again and have lost a few Lbs. from the weight you have gained and now you want me to slow down. It seem's that my wife and possibly your's are the same....while they are fattening up they don't mind, actually they like us to fatten up with them to make them feel better and the minute they want to lose weight and start slimming down they act like we are some big Fatty now. She also has commented on a few mutual friends of our's and how Fat and out of shape their Husband's are....where as for the last several years she has not discussed or fat shamed anyone really. also, I am not even as big as I was a while ago when I was trying to get her to comment on my weight gain while intentionally gaining. Hopefully she just goes and buy's some new work outfits like your girlfriends jeans in bigger sizes and continues to gain.

As far as discussing openly this fetish with your girlfriend in my experience it never worked out that great. I have simply just had her gradually gain on her own and when I notice her appetite growing make sure she has all her favorite fattening snacks stocked up and readily available. I am hoping her trying to slim a bit gets to tough and she starts to really fatten up...and at that point she will be probably be bringing me thirds at every dinner. I truly believe that if she gets fat she wants me to get as fat or fatter these day's.

Oh....and Mutual gaining is kind of the ultimate for me these day's also.

The only thing is i dont want to mention that i want her to gain cause it didnt go so well last time.

So i might just keep the snacks close and maybe get take out more. I dont want her to be ssbbw size i just want there to be a lil more size and heft to her maybe another 10 to 20 kgs would be perfect.

All i can do is hope she comes around just a lil more will keep u guys updated