In my experience with my wife I never really told her I simply started gaining weight unintentionally while really trying to increase her weight by buying gall the fattening sweets in the house.
My wife did gain some weight but before I really even noticed I was 15 Lbs heavier because uncontiously I was snacking with her and without her on all the extra calories. I liked it and was pretty aroused by how big my belly was getting and decided to gain intentionally. Mostly because I had a strong urge to have my wife comment or even tease me for my weight gain. My intentional stuffing and gaining continued on for several months because my wife never commented. In fact she started making bigger portions and supplying me with seconds without even asking as well as hand delivered deserts right to my lap after dinner which was starting to get filled with a very huge gut. I was aroused by my new fat gut and she seemed to be also where as before many years ago when we were still dating she commented about guy's who let themselves get fat and out of shape and mentioned she would let me know if I became to fat and out of shape for her.
So, I guess things change or maybe get more easily accustomed to. She finally commented on my weight gain in a fun and teasing approach a few times when she was intoxicated. I am not sure but I think my wife liked the fact that I was fatter than her now and that she felt more comfortable gaining weight herself...and just liked the overall much bigger me.
So, I say try going for a good 20+ Lbs. and see if there is a big difference and ease her into seeing if she comments or acts friendly with your bigger belly. I was already at a size that the firs 20 lbs. really showed a lot bigger and bloated in my belly.
My wife did gain some weight but before I really even noticed I was 15 Lbs heavier because uncontiously I was snacking with her and without her on all the extra calories. I liked it and was pretty aroused by how big my belly was getting and decided to gain intentionally. Mostly because I had a strong urge to have my wife comment or even tease me for my weight gain. My intentional stuffing and gaining continued on for several months because my wife never commented. In fact she started making bigger portions and supplying me with seconds without even asking as well as hand delivered deserts right to my lap after dinner which was starting to get filled with a very huge gut. I was aroused by my new fat gut and she seemed to be also where as before many years ago when we were still dating she commented about guy's who let themselves get fat and out of shape and mentioned she would let me know if I became to fat and out of shape for her.
So, I guess things change or maybe get more easily accustomed to. She finally commented on my weight gain in a fun and teasing approach a few times when she was intoxicated. I am not sure but I think my wife liked the fact that I was fatter than her now and that she felt more comfortable gaining weight herself...and just liked the overall much bigger me.
So, I say try going for a good 20+ Lbs. and see if there is a big difference and ease her into seeing if she comments or acts friendly with your bigger belly. I was already at a size that the firs 20 lbs. really showed a lot bigger and bloated in my belly.
9 years