Physical attraction is important. The politically correct thing to say is that it shouldn't matter. But it does. If you have told him you prefer his old weight, and he still wants to lose, then maybe he is not right for you.
Not the first time I see such situation here... that really is depressing to see. It looks like that fetish brings more sorrow in long term than happiness in short term. Exactly now I thought if there was a "kink | normal" switch ... to flip it and be happy like the rest...
