joliat:
20 years ago I met the woman who became my wife. She was chubby at 5'4 and maybe 170 lbs. The fat was well distributed but her belly was nice in particular.
She wasn't happy about her weight, but loved food, loved treats, loved to eat. Without announcing my love of fat, I was very encouraging and food-positive, bringing her treats, taking her to dessert places, etc. Within a few dates she was openly overeating, talking about how full she was, etc.. Her overeating was mostly a 'routine' thing (always going for seconds; always eating a bit too much; etc.). Quite often, we'd watch TV on the couch after supper and she'd have her pants unbuttoned, with her delicious belly bulging out.
Sometimes she'd *really* stuff herself, though. Those times are really exciting to me. E.g. the time she couldn't walk two blocks back to the car from a restaurant because she was so full...she had to sit at a park bench while I went to get the car. Parties are especially good for this. The food is plentiful and she overdoes it. I love noticing the glances she gets as she reaches for that third dessert, etc.. "Oooh, I'm sooo full," she'll say on the drive home...
20 years later, she is about 300 lbs.
I'll admit that we never went the full-on feeder/feedee route. It was more about me being positive and loving and her pursuing her natural desire to overeat. I love it!
This was great to hear your story. I have kind of tried the same in my relationship....I stopped discussing or trying to encourage her to gain weight and simp kept her favorite sweets around and let her take her own course. My wife has a huge sweet tooth and actually sacrifices eating so much of her meal to actually stuff herself afterwards with decadent rich deserts. She mostly maintains her soft chunkier figure that has continually rised in weight over the many years but there are many times where her eating gets a bit more out of control for several months and it is such a turn on for me to watch her eat as much as me at lunch and dinner and for her following with some huge fattening deserts. During these times she gains weight pretty quickly until she puts on 30-40 pounds and aggressively tries to slow down and control her appetite. She struggles for a while and her figure look's so Hot going from chunky to Fat and during these times I could swear she get's even more look's from guy's "rubber necking" all the time when we are out. I think there are a lot more FA's out there that are in the closet. But eventually she will lose most of what she gained in around 6 months to a year but she always hold's onto a little bit of the weight and over the years it has brought her low weight up a good 40+ pounds total.
