That is very sad indeed, I hate that society sucks in this so badly. For me, fat people and the very obese, massively fat are the most beautiful and amazing people at all, they radiate such fullness and abundance, such rotund beauty, in my dream world, the queen and king of the land are the fattest people all around and they are chosen like this and fattened up, because who can take a small and spindly, merely fat person serious in a role like that?
Anyway, I wish this would change, that media, the movies and the medical industry would stop making obese and fat look like the ultimate ugly, because it is not. It is just plain dumb to peddle this view, but sadly, the majority of people is not really that bright and easy to influence. They think it is their own opinion that fat is not attractive, ut it is actually something put in their minds by TV and movies and reading magazines.
And then of course there is this thing that I'm getting tired of fast, where somebody recounts how much weight they just recently lost. In a group, everybody then applauds and yes, how great is that? What a good person, bettering themselves. It sounds like they got their masters or PhD or just won an Oscar. I like people gaining and being fat and I'm getting fatter myself, I very likely will get into the situation you are now, where I am very large and many things will become more difficult, or impossible, so I fight for this.
Losing weight for me is not a great achievement, it sounds kind of strange. It is like somebody saying "And guess what, I just lost 60% of all my money and soon, I will have lost most of it" and people applauding for it.
So you can tell I love to stand on a soap box, I'm very strong willed and love fat and ssBBWs and ssBHMs and want to create a better world, where fat is accepted and respected, not discriminated and shunned. For this reason, I created a social group in San Francisco called Big Fat Friends that I plan to grow into the largest organisation worldwide and use the power it gets to start pushing for companies and society respect us and stop the discrimination.
It saddens me how far behind, how marginal fat acceptance still is. Even the gender fluidity movement has gotten more accepted and more visible, and they started much later than fat acceptance. Fat is natural and nothing strange or abnormal, it is only the way the body reacts to a lot of food and it used to be a huge survival advantage that saved people from starvation in hard winters and famine. I hope things get better soon.
8 years
