Stuffing

Love when my feeder takes control like this... being bound and funnel fed is an additional thrill, but I love being commanded to eat until my feeder is satisfied.

I agree that both psych and physical force have appeal, for me it just depends on which button I need pushed. The concept of physical forcefeeding (whether realistic or fantasy) usually satisfies the aversion I have to not gaining weight; that there is absolutely no way I can prevent it.

When it's psychological/social, that tends the satisfy the part of me that wants to give in and be stuffed and/or stuff myself with abandon, but again it's mostly about what the feeder wants to accomplish.

Acts that I would consider psychological force-feeding are manipulation ("I made these just for you! Are you going to let them go to waste?" "I noticed you really liked this recipe so I made a dozen!" "Oh I'm finished, here, have the rest of my plate." or conditioning, such as just always having snacks/drinks on hand and rewarding not just went I eat but over-eat, finishing with lots of fun sexytimes when I reach my absolute limits, etc. Another particular favorite is to be given a time test, such as to eat continuously for an entire hour or have a certain window to finish a meal.

(Blackmail is also a hot button for me but that's a whole different topic, really!)

It's still my choice to put the food in my mouth (or have it BE put in my mouth and I eat it) but definitely to satisfy the feeders' desires. For me personally the feedism is about a full stomach and giving up control to someone, as I'm very much in control of the rest of my daily life.

Your one lucky man ! That's the kind of relationship I ban only dream about !!

I've hand-fed her a few times, and that's cute. One of those times she was sort of done but I kept saying "no, one more." That was cute too.

But what I REALLY love is when she does it to herself. When she diets but instead asks for cake.

She has no discipline in this regard at all. I love putting food out, often close to her, and seeing her eat. At first a few chips; just going to be a portion. One chip at a time. Resolutely the bag goes closed! There! Then...bag open again...and it goes in by the handful, and she doesn't stop.

Two, three days later she weighs herself and is shocked! Shocked, I tell you! No more! She's going to eat smart now!

Then, in the evening, I ask "going to get myself something from the kitchen; you want something?" And there she asks for her donut, her cake, her chips, her candy.

Since a year she knows I love her big(ger), and since about a month I'm really pushing this, convincing her. She's eating like crazy at the moment, and already her weight is such that basically there is no going back. That would take so much sustained effort (read: discipline) for such a long stretch of time. She may yo-yo, but that is good; yo-yo dieting helps weight gain.

I *ADORE* it that she goes, and will go, between dieting and hardly losing, and letting herself go and gaining. And I *ADORE* that she is internalizing that; that she's actively letting go, giving up. It's like a rape of the mind.

Enabling is such a hot thing.

Methods used for force feeding?

Their most be other methods as well...?