Sounds like you're both very willing to try new things! I'm sorry about your chronic illness, but I'm glad that's not stopping you from wanting to be kinky!
Now, I should preface that I'm not a qualified sex worker or sexologist and would recommend seeing a sexologist for more informed information and advice.
That being said, while penetrative sex is amazing you definitely should not throw out oral. 69 sounds out of the question taking turns can be fun! Possibly straddling his belly while he fingers you could give a simulation of penetration without penile penetration then finishing him off orally or manually.
Also, have you looked up the kamasutra? They often have pictures so you can preview positions and see if they would cause you or your husband discomfort.
Now, I should preface that I'm not a qualified sex worker or sexologist and would recommend seeing a sexologist for more informed information and advice.
That being said, while penetrative sex is amazing you definitely should not throw out oral. 69 sounds out of the question taking turns can be fun! Possibly straddling his belly while he fingers you could give a simulation of penetration without penile penetration then finishing him off orally or manually.
Also, have you looked up the kamasutra? They often have pictures so you can preview positions and see if they would cause you or your husband discomfort.
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