Events

I'm pondering setting up some sort of closed-door event in northwest Washington at a casino buffet exclusively for gainers and feedees. Could I get some comments or suggestions on how to do this? I want to stress that sexuality would have nothing to do with the event and discussion of that would be discouraged -- just focus on eating as much as we can and grow bigger.

I'll post updates when stuff happens.

Correct. The state of Washington.

As for arranging the event itself, you should be able to find a casino that does private events and it shouldn't really be an issue.

As for clientele -- maybe set up a website or a page on twitter or something where people can RSVP. Assume that only 2/3 of that will actually show up. Maybe you could charge a ticket price (which most Casinos will require you to do as the charge is usually per person).

For women -- Maybe go to fetlife and talk to some of the organizers of events there. Some events are better than others and I get it, a lot of those events are not "our kink" but a lot of those people have been handling questions like that for a long time -- some more successfully than others.

There are ways to make kink positive spaces inclusive for women, but ShakesSphere is right -- many women don't want to go to them. It's not because they're shy, but frequently because being in a kink space inherently means there's going to be a bunch of people that expect sex out of you and can raise the chances of sexual assault and pervy dudes. You can block someone online but in real life people can just keep following you around.

Potential solution: make it a week long event or a few days with different days for different people? Or try to find a way to have workshops or something that specifically women-only spaces? Potentially getting a female organizer onboard might help you out, too.

Women deserve places to exercise their sexuality, too without feeling objectified and that's the key to an event like that being successful, I think.

I've been talking with a woman who's interested in going to something like this. There are several casinos nearby that can host this. How can one put a restriction of "no sex" on an event?

I'm down

Message me when plans are definite. Last one I went to in Seattle had 50 50 men/women