Fat experiences

How have you brought up the subject of size or being fat with others in order to hear their inclinations on it? For example, when I was much younger, I once asked a young lady who I considered to be the prettiest in the class who she thought to be the fattest person in the class. She looked at me and said" You". I was flabbergasted and embarrassed. Back then, I wasn't fat. I may have had a slightly protruding stomach. I, to this day don't know if she was just joking. I think that those of us with an interest in size contrast have often attempted to discretely discuss related subjects with people who attract us.

Not my opinion mrtubby sir.
I have only recently become a deliberate gainer myself, and have made no secret of my fat fetish for others, for the past 40 years or so. I have been a fat admirer all my life really.
I guess I am the sort of person who has always said exactly what I think, and in many cases my mouth has got me into some awkward situations, but I have always felt it better to be honest instead of hiding your true thoughts.
I do get a buzz from making people cringe, and so naturally the people who hate fatties are the ones I offload my fetish on the most !
Everybody at my workplace knows I love huge women, and I am happy to laugh and go along with their jokes about me, it's all good fun, and I always go one step further than they do and out-cringe them with my exaggerated fantasies.

I make off-handed and throwaway comments about being fat. I refer to myself as Fatboy. I point to my belly and make jokes. When someone offers me something I say “you don’t get to be 235 lbs by refusing food”. All these things get a laugh. If nothing else it makes people think I’m comfortable with my weight.