Mrmichael:
I think you should do what makes you happy. Don�t worry about what other people think, it�s your body.
This ^
Are you happy with the extra size ? If yes, then gain as much as you want to, and feel comfortable with.
If your bf is happy that you have some wobbly bits, then that is a bonus.
I'm very lucky, as my wife loves me at any size. She has seen me skinny, then athletic, then 15st of muscle, and now I am a fatty. She doesn't care, lucky me !
