I think growing up as a fat kid you always stick out and that can be hard, especially if bullies find you an easy target. I think people react to it in different ways.
1. Become something of a wallflower and shy away.
2. Don't let the bullies win and be happy with who you are.
Fortunately it seems I took the later route. I surrounded myself with people who liked me and I didn't let the bullies in. I found unique and clever ways of dealing with bullies.
We all carry scars of our past. You can hide them or let the world see. Hiding makes others feel better but not you. Showing them may make you feel vulnerable but in the end you overcome it and live a life where you are comfortable with who you are.
That's my experience anyway.
1. Become something of a wallflower and shy away.
2. Don't let the bullies win and be happy with who you are.
Fortunately it seems I took the later route. I surrounded myself with people who liked me and I didn't let the bullies in. I found unique and clever ways of dealing with bullies.
We all carry scars of our past. You can hide them or let the world see. Hiding makes others feel better but not you. Showing them may make you feel vulnerable but in the end you overcome it and live a life where you are comfortable with who you are.
That's my experience anyway.
5 years