Lifestyle tips

How is that dynamic like. Is it difficult and how do you express your urges with someone not into the fetish? Did they eventually give into the fetish?

My wife was always bigger, lost weight. For a while I was the food police and then told her I didn't like that role because I prefer her with more meat on her.

I got her as far as giving me a 5 LBS gain as a CHristmas present (which turned into a 20 lbs gain).

She knows how I feel but isn't "into" it herself. I kind of like that as I'm growing her anyway. There is a sexiness to growing a woman larger while she's not into it

I got married before having access to online spaces like this, or even knowing the terms like feeder or feeder (and generally being pretty naive, it was my first real relationship) My wife is a foodee and a small BBW (now), but not a feeder or FA or generally into fat kink at all.

She was not more than curvy when we met. I didn't quite openly ask about this stuff but hinted at it, and I thought the response -- her enjoying her food and gaining steadily and without complaints as we dated-- meant she shared something of the same feelings. By the time I understood that she didn't I was both hopelessly in love with her and married, so I've learned to deal with my feelings on my own.

In part online fat-kink friendly places help, because I can at least talk about it. ive always given myself permission to fantasize in private, and I've written some fat fiction too. And I enjoy the fat that she does carry and the memory of how much she did gain.

My wife is a foodee but doesn't have this fetish. Once I opened up about it, she started gaining weight steadily. And she's heavy now but has no sexual connection to the idea of gaining or being fat. I feel like we've found a somewhat happy middle