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How can i balance feederism into a future relationship?

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Zelda64   United States
Joined 6 years
Hello so I am starting to think that I seriously want to be in a relationship that involves Feederism. I fall into the feeder category and whenever I see a guy I�m attracted to instantly feel aroused. Like just the thought of them and how they are fat just turns me on. It�s like I don�t even think about the person themselves and it makes me feel terrible sometimes. I fear that I would just be incapable to be in a relationship with this fetish in my life because I will be too obsessed with wanting them to gain weight. Like the thought of whom I was with would instantly arouse me and would I even think of them as a person and not care about the romantic side of the relationship. I also fear that when they start gaining, I will just be constantly aroused by them. Like when I think about them I am scared that all I will think about is them getting fat?
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How can i balance feederism into a future relationship?

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Zelda64   United States
Joined 6 years
hollowday:
Mental illness

what?
5 years

How can i balance feederism into a future relationship?

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Zelda64   United States
Joined 6 years
SahX:
Well, congratulations: you are of a rather healthy sanity level. Self-aware enough to recognize he have some erotically compulsive proclitivities yet have the decency to still overcome them, but feel nonetheless guilty.

It's normal: perhaps if you're talking a little more with these so called "normies", you would note than at least 1 out of 3 of your entourage hold similar guilt-tripping fantasms about their own repressed fetishes or deviancies. The only solution to your issue is to keep your head out of the mud repeatedly, until you find a balance.


Thanks for the response. What do you mean by keeping my head out of the mud. Hod do i do that?
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