johnxyz:
You have to put up with a lot of crap to be a feedee and gain weight. This includes crap from friends and family, job discrimination, possible health issues, limiting places you can go and things you can do. Someone who wants to be a feedee will have to want it bad enough to overcome the problems associated with it.
That is very true.
If you just think you want to gain or you have a fantasy about being fat isn't quite enough.
You have to have the will and the drive to actually do it.