Lifestyle tips

I don't think it is a simple as 'am I gay or not'.

People have many different sexual desires, and not every bisexual or gay person is exactly the same.

I am a straight, married man, but I have certain fantasies too. I'd love to try frotting & docking with another man, even though I don't find men in any way attractive, and I certainly don't get any feelings if I happen to see men kissing on a porn clip or something.

Am I gay or bi ?
I don't think so, but there isn't really a line that you cross, which decided if you are or not. It's more of a large grey area.

I'd just accept that you are sexually attracted to what you are attracted to, and carry on enjoying life :-)

I'd say the same as figurebysnacks. I think labels can be useful for telling people how you want your sexuality to be treated, but if it is something that worries you it's not something you have to focus too much on!

As an aside, I'm starting to realise that I am mostly the opposite of you - I'm generally straight within the fetish and closer to bi or pan outside of it.

I consider myself basically straight, but I have chatted with a few female feeders that know all of the fat buttons to press and I would happily settle down and fatten up for any of them.

So yeah, when fat is your thing, it’s not all about whether the person who gets the connection between your brain and your belly and your sexuality is male or female.