Maybe you could encourage them by suggesting they play with their bodies, like you do, or do it in front of them a little so they get the idea. Rub your stomach with obvious enjoyment. It is about their pleasure more than yours after all! They should do whatever feels good to them. I think to many people get fat and feel to ashamed to touch it which is really backwards. I once asked my mom if she had a lover and she replied "I'm too fat for sex!" and I was dumbfounded.....I just couldn't reply anything.....okkkayyy. I'm a little bit jealous you get to watch your friends.....
4 years