Fat experiences

Just curious as a gal who’s getting pretty fat these days. What do y’all men like about fat women and find sexy? Is it only in the bedroom/secret? Would you date/marry a fat girl? Would you try to make your gf/wife gain for you?

This is so hot!!! I can’t wait to have this one day.

There are so many hot things and I think they turn me on in different kinds of ways. Maybe one of the most intense things is when people eat so much that it hurts and they're cradling their belly. I can hardly deal with how hot that is lol. But the more calm side is just noticing how someone's new weight is suddenly noticeable where I had never really thought about it before. Like noticing you can see their bellybutton through a top, or noticing that their hips are on show a little more because tops ride up a tiny bit, and they just look so soft to squeeze.

I would definitely date/marry a chubby girl, and I would love for someone to gain with me but I'm pretty active and most of the people I hang out with are as well so it would probably not be loads or it would be short term or something.

That's a nice picture, though I think you may need to upgrade to the next size up for underwear.

A better question would be "what don't I like about fat women?"

I often joke the only downside is that during the honeymoon, I will not be able to perform carrying her "over the threshold" where I pick her up in my arms, because she will simply just be too heavy. Good thing I don't care about that.

I do have some upper limits where I might have a problem, but that's when one is unable to be and take care of herself independently, assuming nominal access to modern technology while living in an urban area (or what most folks will have). I expect you to be able to drive a car, cook in a kitchen, and be able to work at a career job without assistance, for example; everything one might have to do when living alone. But odds are you're never going to be that big; most folks will never get to that point.

Nowadays, I can only imagine marrying a fat woman. I try to keep an open mind, and never say never, but if she's rail skinny, well... there better be just something really special about her to catch and keep my interest, in spite of being very thin. Right now I can't picture this.

Even then, it will be difficult for me not to encourage her to have larger portions, suggest snacks, integrate food into dates that have nothing to do with food, or try to set up social situations where it's awkward not to eat something fattening. If the BMI is below 30, that just seems too thin.

Hell, when I marry a fat woman... I don't know if I'll be able to but for the honeymoon, I want to go on a cruise, hopefully for 2 weeks. I'd want to pig out with her, eating and drinking a lot, hopefully gaining at least 15-20 lbs.

Anyway, my reasons aren't just physical or physiological, but kind of psychological/personality too.

Some of the physical/physiological things I like are...

I like curves, big boobs, and big butts. Fat women have those in spades.

I love the softness. Everything from the cankles wedged into heels all the way to the sausage fingers and plump hands. It feels almost electric when I shake hands with any fat woman. If I find her attractive, I feel like I have to contain myself.

Hugs are much more fun, since I can feel the fat and softness being squeezed, even slightly in my arms. Even when I feel the back fat seep between my fingers.

I've also read that the more weight she gains and more body fat she has, there's something about it that causes a marked increase in sex drive. It's not entirely clear to me why this is; an effect on estrogen perhaps? Either way, who wouldn't love that? It's unclear to me if this has the same effect on men.

And of course, there's something very alluring when her boobs, butt, and thunder thighs have that slight jiggle every time she takes a step.

The other day, I saw, and can still picture in my mind this upper middle age lady I saw at the shopping mall the other day. Probably early 50s, 3-4 inch heels, cankles wedged in. Probably about 5'6"? Must have weighed at least 250 lbs, probably 300. Boobs were probably E or F. Nicely styled hair; think it had some curls at the end rather than a Brazilian blowout. Makeup was tasteful too. Her dress was somewhat flowey, but also slightly tight and curve hugging. That quiver every time she took a step. I almost lost it. She would have been too old for me, but man.. if my future wife looked kind of like that when she's 50, and I got to see that every day? What's not to love?

I could probably go on, but I think I'll move on to the more psychological/personality part of it.

Certain psychological/personality things I like are...

Disclaimer: This more applies to women who are confident in their size. Sadly, some women aren't there yet, and it makes me sad. The ones who torture themselves by eating terrible food that tastes bad in a bid to diet the weight off, torture themselves at the gym, and/or wear unflattering clothes that look bad because she tries to conceal her size (which never works). I'm not against trying to help some women try to work past that, but she has to be open minded enough to get there; this can't be forced.

I know.. I should be pleased that weight loss diets usually fail, with the result being that she usually gains all the weight back and then some, ending up even heavier. But I'm not, because the sadness and anguish it causes. There's enough bad things in this world as it is, so why add to that? Okay, end of disclaimer.

I love how fat women both eat and drink more, and can party harder. They're less likely to be unable to hold their liquor.

I love wh

(cont'd)

Damn it... the last post got cut off due to length. Guess it just shows how wonderful I think they are.

I'm going to try to continue on where I left off. Without further ado..


I love when they use tasteful makeup and style their hair, knowing it makes a huge difference, rather than letting it all go to hell.

I love when fat women they wear clothes that traditionally (at least 20+ years ago) was only socially acceptable for thin/or skinny women to wear, even though such clothes look the worst on them. Mini-skirts, midi-skirts (above the knee), skinny jeans, sleeveless tops that show a bit more cleavage and skin. Form fitting dresses that flaunt the figure rather than try to conceal it. When she goes swimming or to the beach, she's willing to wear a 2-piece bikini, unafraid of revealing her mid-section.

I don't mind and even enjoy light physical activity at times, such as walks and enjoying the outdoors, but I know she will never expect anything vigorous. She'd rather we plop out widening butts down somewhere as we suck milkshakes dry.

With her figure she almost certainly eats a lot and knows what's tasty and delicious. There's a higher chance she may also know how to cook very delicious, calorie-laden food. Your own waistline is likely to expand when you eat her cooking, but so what? That just means you'll be able to eat even more delicious food later on!


She's likely to be focused on gluttony and hedonism. Dinner simply isn't complete without a large, tasty dessert. If it tastes good and feels good, she wants more of it.

It's a life that's bigger; not just literally, but figuratively and metaphorically too. More of everything that makes like fun and worth living. And really, who wouldn't want that?!


As I've gained weight myself, I've noticed that if anything, the desire for a fat woman has become more intense. The thought of being with a very thin or skinny woman was already disagreeable but as become more so. As I gain more, I expect this to become even more important.

It would also be a bonus if I didn't necessarily have to hide and sneak when I have heavy cream based weight gain shakes on some nights, or that I like to drink half & half like milk.

best part is the belly. everything about it at every moment of the day. when it’s empty and jiggly in the morning, to when it’s full and hard bursting through buttons at the end of the night. it’s the belly for sure. or the fact they can keep up with my appetite or even be a rival towards me to force me to eat more so i can be the bigger one.

Date: yes, Marry: most definitely.

Outside of the bedroom, there are loads of perks.

In the long run, being with a partner who is indulgent is a real plus. If you're lucky enough to be able to travel and go on dates, adding in an enjoyable meal or snack is something that is a lot easier with a less diet focused woman.

There are very few cultures that are not proud of their cuisine and when making new friends it is a lot easier when there is a base common interest which is often a meal.

Having dated a lot of smaller more diet focused women, I can tell you it is a lot harder to socialise. There's nothing worse than meeting a new business partner and his wife and having your S/O turn down all hospitality due to her diet.

Making someone gain is a different thing. Not discouraging them from it when they clearly aren't against it is fine, but if theres a hard No despite you being honest, then I see that as an incompatibility.

My favorite part about fat women (and being mutually fat) is how their bodies are both in their control and out of their control. They control that they passionately hug, cuddle, sit, or lay on someone with their body, but they can't control how doing so makes their bodies jiggle and mold around their partners'; they control presenting their fat for their partners' to play with, but they can't control how helpless and malleable their fat is within their partners' hands. And best of all, mutually fat partners have that dynamic going in both directions, which gets even better as both of their fat bodies press, squish, and wobble around each other!

On being public about loving fat women, I remember when I was in a relationship with my 300+lbs ex. One time we had a prolonged hug in a parking lot in front of an occupied car. The driver was facing us, and because their car wasn't started I could be fully invested in our hug. I'm not usually one for PDA, but it felt good, like I was showing off how much woman I got to love each day!

I LOVE that while that happened and you were thrilled about it, you said that it's not your body to change. I'm imagining you just made these women feel really good about themselves and free to indulge. It is so refreshing and wonderful to see someone that has this fetish and ALSO respects personal boundaries and don't treat the other person like their livestock or something!!!! That's really awesome!!! Fantasies or stories are wonderful but not all of them could or should be lived out and especially not forced on someone!!!

Fat women are soft, warm and great to cuddle with.

I love when woman is enjoying food, snack and she is turned on about soft body.

There is nothing more sensual than girl enjoying on soft bed lazily eating all those yummy things and after that caressing on her soft body before food coma sets in.