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When in a feeder relationship how often do you thinking about feeding your partner? is it consta

I fear that I would just be incapable to be in a relationship with this fetish in my life because I will be too obsessed with wanting them to gain weight and with their belly. I also fear that when they start gaining, I will just be constantly aroused by them. If anyone is a feeder are you constantly horny where it is an issue or is it just something that it enjoyed and appreciated on occassion?
5 years

When in a feeder relationship how often do you thinking about feeding your partner? is it consta

kissoo:
When my husband initially started gaining I thought about it constantly! And yes, I was always turned on. I think because the changes were all so new to me.

If you have a feedee/feeder relationship, I think it's important to establish boundaries and his/her limit. That will help create some balance. eg. mine doesn't want to get bigger than 240ish, and while I'd be excited to see him bigger than that, by hovering at roughly the same size, our fetish feels like more of a lifestyle now and less of an obsession with an insatiable goal.


Are you happy with his current weight and was his gaining ever become an obsession?
5 years

When in a feeder relationship how often do you thinking about feeding your partner? is it consta

You seem very concerned about this topic! Why not just give it a shot and see how it goes? What's realistically the worst case scenario if you do, in fact, find yourself thoroughly overcome by feeding-centric horniness?
5 years