General

We exist 😝

Try checking ffambrosia. It's not very popular but it's mostly catered to them and male feedees.

We're here, but true that we're elusive sometimes.

There are a couple here. But, I think a lot like mutual gaining/feeding...we get jealous of all the wonderful food you're gorging on.

Female feeders are really rare.

I know a couple where when she was big, he was massive and then when she decided she was losing weight, he too miraculously lost weight as well.

I know that feeling, although I’m feedee. The only attention I’ve had is from guys and it’s so frustrating, like I’m worth looking at but not worth reading my profile?!?!

I think I’m definitely a unicorn because I’m actually just attracted to fat people and don’t feel turned on by making a thin person fat. I never realized that feederism is SO MUCH more common than being a real FA. Weight gain is a turn on to me but very very far from being a necessity. The level to which I fail to understand it bothers me sometimes. Like, if you were truly attracted to fat people why would you chose to date someone thin in the first place? It makes me think that it’s more about control and ruination than anything.

As someone who dated both very fat and thin personal trainers, I go for the personality. If a thin woman doesnt want to be fat, I don't push it. Ill be attracted to her anyway. The fetish doesn't control me, cant say the same for others.

It is mostly a social and cultural thing. Because we here in the States have a Eurocentric culture so most of what I perpetuated is folks being direly think when in Black culture especially southern culture there are plenty of women who do nothing but feed their men so it depends on the subculture and where dudes are actually located at.