There are certain hormones males need to take, on top of the hormones needed to grow breasts. Also, I have heard that abruptly stopping taking female hormones can cause lactation. But you need real breasts first, not just moobs.
Your hair is thinning, you could ask your doctor for Finasteride. Gynecomastia is a common side effect due to the increase in estrogen. Lot of guys need an aromatase inhibitor to keep their estrogen in check when on it.
