Dolkite:
A huge goal for me was wearing my bikini at the beach, the same stars-and-stripes one in my pics. It took a lot of courage, but I did it and I felt amazing. NOTHING shows off a fat body better than a bikini.
To make it even more challenging, I made myself take two long walks up and down the beach so everyone saw me. And I went to Subway before and bought two footlong subs and when I first sat down, I demolished them both in like 10-15 minutes, hoping people would notice.
And I thought I had confidence. While I much rather prefer the feel of a speedo to normal trunks. I’ll only wear one in private or somewhere most people wear them too. Been on a couple of cruises where I was nervous to were one but then I saw guys and girls that had 100+ lbs on me wearing low rise briefs. Plus they also allow me more room to stuff my belly lol.